i’m unsure if i have ocd, is it an ocd thing if i want to perfect everything i do and see others do? for example when my mother makes her bed and she doesn’t align the pillows in a perfect line it annoys me, same with me i cant sleep before i align my pillows and blanket symmetrically.

If you are annoyed by pillows and blankets not being symmetrical, I kind of doubt that would be OCD-related. If, on the other hand, you fear something bad is going to happen if things aren't symmetrical and immediately placed these items symmetrically to prevent the bad thing from happening, that would be an indication of OCD.

How much time do you spend each day doing things to fix the pillows and blankets? And how would you feel if you weren't able to correct it?

Ugh this sounds just like me. I struggle with perfectionism and symmetry OCD. I'm constantly going behind people when they're in my house and making things "just right." For example, if someone washes their hands and uses the towel, I have to go behind them and fold it perfectly symmetrical or it drives me nuts. I don't feel that something "bad" is going to happen, it just keeps nagging at my brain until I fix it. And sometimes it takes me a long time just struggling to get the towel to look right. And this happens all the time with the couch cushions, the way the chairs are positioned around the kitchen table, how plates are stacked in the cabinets. It's so tiring and, frankly, embarrassing. When my boyfriend takes out the trash and replaces the bag, I always have to go behind and fix it so the little pull strip is directly in the center of that makes sense. And then I feel bad and apologize to him telling him it's not that I think he didn't do it right, I just have to make sure it's perfect or I won't be able to move forward with my day. My mind is so exhausted.