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i saw the last post. look, your friend has to understand that nothing in this would is certain. and no amount of anxiety can change the future anyway. if he’s worried about going to jail, the best thing to do is to tell him you will always be by his side no matter what. you can’t stop him from going to jail unless you are his lawyer, but you can support him. i don’t know what exactly he did because i didn’t pay attention to that post, but do not reassure him. just tell him you care about him. i know it’s hard to sit with the fear of something to that extent.. but it’s the only way to learn to enjoy life
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i meant world***
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@MakeAChange but he legit cannot do anything because he’s so worried. Would u mind paying attention to the post to see what he did?
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@sunnydays1013 i just read it, i kinda understand, but also not. did you read what i said? there’s nothing he can do. that’s just the truth. he has to live with the uncertainty. i understand he’s scared and he feels as if there’s no reason to wake up because “what’s the point if i’m just going to go to jail?” but that makes literally no sense. at any second, he could also die. anyone could. but do you see people walking around terrified of everything they see? do they look worried? tell him to think of it like someone on death row. they have a week left to live. a week left of freedom. do you think they are just gonna lay in bed till it’s time? or are they going to make that the best week of their life? it’s his decision. he can choose to hide and succumb to his fear, or he can overcome this and rise. he knows better now, it’s okay to make mistakes, and it’s okay to be scared. but there is nothing he can do.. so might as well live the best you can.
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@MakeAChange Yea I see what you’re saying. It’s just super hard for him causes he’s in college like trying his best and about to get a job and he feels like his entire life is ruined. He said he’d rather have a week left to live than a week left to go to jail.
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@sunnydays1013 his life isn’t ruined. please tell him to take a breather lol. honestly, to me it sounds like he didn’t do a single damn thing wrong. if he’s trying his best that’s all that matters. huh? okay that’s ridiculous. there are people dying right now.. who would kill to go to jail.. and he would rather die in a week than go to jail? even if he did, does he think he would get life in prison without parol? is he worried about his career? because that shit literally isn’t gonna ruin anything. he didn’t even hurt anyone. it’s just internet shit. there are murderers out here living THE fucking life and don’t give a single shit about anything they have done and have jobs too. and here he is, won’t get out of bed because he’s scared of going to jail. he didn’t hurt anyone. he will be fine. and he does realize there will be a court trial right.. the fbi isn’t gonna kick in his door lol. i don’t know what’s going through his mind, and i do understand his worry, but he needs to realize he’s not a serial killer.
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@MakeAChange he’s worried he blackmailed someone for money. NON consensually and posted peoples private address and name on twitter to be exposed because he wanted money and that’s extortion. These are just things he’s told me. He KNOWS he blackmailed consensually because they wanted it but doesn’t know if he did it to someone that didn’t want it and got money out of it
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@MakeAChange He’s worried about getting a job and reputation mainly
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@MakeAChange He’s also worried he threatened to hurt someone for money
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@MakeAChange Wanted to thank you!! I sent what u said over to him and he did find it silly how he hadn’t thought of parol. Thanks a lot!! U helped him a little lol
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