Why do I get annoyed at homophobic comments and shit like that now?my minds just telling me I’m gay cause I watched bisexual porn ( mmf), I do have a huge porn addiction, and looking at the porn now it makes me feel sick and uncomfortable, and imagining doing gay stuff in real life makes me feel uncomfortable, no offence

@Intrusivefighter123 Sexuality is not fluid, but it I'd a spectrum. There's that bi-cycle bisexuals experience that can change their preferences drastically, but sexuality cannot change over time. Bisexuals still have the capacity to like both sexes, and homosexuals like the same, heterosexuals the opposite. Please stop speaking misinformation that sexuality can change over time. It absolutely cannot and stating otherwise is homophobic because it implies that homosexuals can be made to like the opposite sex which is absolutely not correct. I spent years trying to convert myself and I have no actual real attraction towards men and never have and possibly never will. If you though you were straight and found out you like the same sex,you haven't become bisexual, you always were but just took a while to discover. Sincerely, a lesbian. <3

@ｆｅｎｎａ Sorry about that! I should have used a different word other than fluid. I completely agree with you!

@Intrusivefighter123 That’s a very viable theory, one that we talk about in some of my psych classes all the time!

@Gansey Please check my reply above, thank you <3

@ｆｅｎｎａ So fenna have u ever been turned on by a man naked like In porn but still don’t feel attraction

@Intrusivefighter123 Yes, and I know quite a few lesbians who exclusively watch gay male porn because lesbian porn is usually directed at males and is nowhere near how lesbain sex actually is like. It doesn't mean they want to have sex with men though. The physiological arousal can be trained out to literally anything because the brain is plastic. It's why you get groinal sensations with OCD. It has nothing to do with attraction.

@Intrusivefighter123 Not an expert, just spent a lot of time on self reflecting and reading and talking to people when I was in process of questioning and accepting my sexuality, so I have gained a lot of insight, haha. Sexuality is about what you truly want, it's that simple. If you have no desire to be with men realistically, and never have, as a male, then you're straight and there's that.

@Intrusivefighter123 Any possible triggering content I mark under the Trigger Warning tag which can be filtered out in the settings, or they could just not click in the post. Plus, exposure is good for OCD and you shouldn't avoid it, but even if you or your girlfriend still do not want to see it, as I've mentioned it's as simple as a few taps.