garden
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KlauKlau
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I feel the same way too and I have HOCD too. So, I don’t know if that makes you feel better, coz it will only reassure you and leave the anxiety back on. I have read articles that explain that women even straight women get turned on by the erotic female body more than the male body, I have heard my straight female friends tell me that they enjoy lesbian porn, I have read blog posts that explain that because of social conditioning us women learn to identify the female form as more sexy and as a sexual object and so we experience a fetish for specific body parts such as boobs and butts. Even knowing all this my HOCD didn’t get better, until I accepted my groinal response whenever I looked at a hot female photo or clip. Even now that I’m writing my OCD tells me that I can feel arosual even if I see a woman showing her butt in a thong or smth, and is not like you that feel that way about a naked female body, so I must be a lesbian and you are not. See the point here?! OCD just wants to trap us with everything it’s got. Be strong!
starry duckstarry duck
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It's not just that but i feel like i'll never be able to have a connection with a man. It's so strange how it made me lose hope in everything.
garden garden
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Thank you so much for that
garden garden
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@stars Me too honestly. My brain twists it because women are more mature and that will give me a ‘better connection’
KlauKlau
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@garden You’re welcomed. You just have to live with the uncertainity that comes with it. Not everything has a explanation!
garden garden
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@Klau Very true!
AnonymousAnonymous
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How are u now? I’m going through same stuff I need help I want to cry my mums lesbian friends are over and I’m having a panic attavk
garden garden
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@jivanovi Hey wanna vent? Sorry for only just replying. I’m doing a little better also
AnonymousAnonymous
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@garden It’s just hard because I’ve been doing a little better as well but some compulsions some thoughts are stull there and the number one trigger is that what u mentioned and my extremely low sex drive, I’m never horny
garden garden
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@jivanovi That’s quite normal! Arousal comes and goes as well as sex drive
AnonymousAnonymous
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@garden Is it normal for 6 months in to still feel really anxious and depressed when I wake up, thank u for your help sorry it’s just so hard
garden garden
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@jivanovi Don’t apologise :( I wake up everyday feeling anxious. It’s not ‘normal’ (in the sense that not every human is this way) butttt it’s very normal for OCD! Are you seeing a therapist?
helpmeimsoscaredhelpmeimsosc...
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@garden How are u now?
AnonymousAnonymous
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Is it also normal to find the female body more arousing than the males? I’m on the list but have to wait 3 months. I’m so sad rn
garden garden
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Honestly from the amount I’ve posted about that exact question, I’ve found that the answer is yes. Women are far more sexualised so it’s only inevitable that we get aroused more by them. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything
garden garden
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@helpmeimsoscared doing okay! in january i did a big exposure and just told my friends i could be bi. this made my ocd way less powerful! and i’ve accepted that maybe i am bi, maybe i’m not. but it’s fine either way. how are you?
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