My ocd convinces me that I’m a bad person because my ex best friend left me due to us fighting because of my ocd :( have any advice?

If your ex best friend leaves you because of that, they weren’t meant to be your best friend anyways. You should love your best friend no matter what they’re going through. I’ve had plenty of best friends and boyfriends leave me because of my mental health but I always tell myself that I didn’t want them in my life anyways if they couldn’t handle me. We deserve people in our life that will be there through the good and bad times!

I agree. A good friend will stand by you when you let them see the real you.... including the ocd that comes with you. a good friend helps you get better but they are there for you .I’m sorry to hear this happened to you. It would make me feel terrible. I don’t think you are a bad person. remember the ocd isn’t you... its something that stays with you but its not you.

My best friend left me when I needed them most. It hurt so bad. However, I’ve had the bestest friend of all for four years now. He is always there for me every single time I need him. You will find the people who care about your mental health. I promise you

Well girl, if you ever need a friend... I’m here! :)

Thank you so much ❤️ and the same to you

Thank you guys so much for the advice and support ❤️we often fought because my ocd was starting to become centered around a fear of checking on her to make sure she was okay, so after a while it became too taxing for her since we would often fight about it when my anxiety was often high. It’s hard because in some ways I feel like a bad person and get why she had to walk away and in other ways I think it’s unfair of her.