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That it doesn’t exist and they’re all homophobic. I have orientation OCD about being bi or straight so... haha
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One thing that triggered my hocd
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Quora is horrible
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Agree
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@pacient 0 I’ve seen things as wild as people saying a Hocd doesn’t exist and that your gay if you have gay thoughts. Pretty wild
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@Guy123456 Yeah and I think I know the reason why QUORA community thinks that
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@pacient 0 Why
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@Guy123456 Well when I first opened quora there where it was listed to join the LGBT community and there were a lot of them plus quora has lgbt supporters who are actually too edgy , this is my opinion
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@pacient 0 Quora honestly is kinda sketchy, there’s a bunch of conflicting personalities and there’s no clear answer to any question.
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@JustRob They just talk and on the end they just solve nothing
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@pacient 0 Lmao true
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@JustRob How are you doing with hocd ?
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@pacient 0 Super good actually, it’s been four days and attraction to girls are back, and the “attraction” to guys are like barely there! I have some anxious moments like heart racing but I’m working on that :)) hbu?
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@pacient 0 Sorry to chime in but are false attractions also the biggest problem with your Hocd? They’re killing me I hate it
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@Guy123456 No prob! They were on the sidelines, the biggest problem would be “would I do (scenario) with a guy?” But they were def worrying hehe
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@JustRob Well to me is very strange , I dont have anymore symptoms of hocd like before , I dont have anxiety like before , and I dont have the fear I had before its so difficult , once I had lost attraction to girls and now I have it back but somehow my hocd is even controling everything in me and its convincing me that Im actually gay but I always remember my past crushes I had and still have some and I get happy , but right now Im dealing with false attraction
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@Guy123456 Not the biggest sometimes they come sometimes they fade and yeah its annoying how feel like you like it but no I hate it
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@JustRob I wish there was a way to just get rid of this completely. Finding guys attractive is distressing and causing so mich anxiety. If I were gay id enjoy it but I hate it. In my right mind, I wouldn’t even be judging a guys appearance whether he was ugly or not ugly. This is horrible
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@Guy123456 Its horrible , now Im thinking that Im denying it
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@Guy123456 It has come to the point where Im not sure how is this gonna get cured , god......
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@pacient 0 May I ask if you’ve been trying ERP real quick?
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@pacient 0 Same man. I’ll never be the same.
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@JustRob No I dont know how to do it plus Im scared that If it wont change me anything
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@pacient 0 Will ERP cure false attractions and neverousness/intrusive thoughts around men?
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@Guy123456 I always enjoyed who I wanted to be a great succesfull man with a hot wife 2 or 3 kids with big house
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@pacient 0 Same. How old r u dawg
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@pacient 0 ERP will def take the load off with false attraction, it takes a bit, but you’re brain won’t respond anxiously.
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@Guy123456 15 the first time it appeared I was 12
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@JustRob I guess in a way, Hocd can actually turn you partially gay
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@pacient 0 I’m 16, had it since march
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@Guy123456 Shit man you scared me 😰
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@pacient 0 Why
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@Guy123456 You triggered with that comment you send to that girl
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@Guy123456 Sexual change is impossible
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@pacient 0 It’s actually impossible. At age 15 still?
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@Guy123456 What do you mean ??
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@pacient 0 I’m 16. I’m at that age where your still finding out your sexuality and who you are etc. I had been straight my whole life. Never even had a single gay thought. Always a really masculine athletic well respected guy, still am. Are you saying that since I was straight my whole life, it’s impossible to change even tho it feels like I did?
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@Guy123456 What are you trying to say ?
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@Guy123456 I feel like that is a reassurance compulsion, so maybe it is, maybe it isn’t.
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@pacient 0 Can sexuality be changed at this point in my life is what I’m saying
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@Guy123456 Oh you are just asking right?
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@pacient 0 Yes
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@Guy123456 Shit you scared me to death bruh
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@pacient 0 I get u man. The smallest most irrelevant things trigger me
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@Guy123456 You know what I thought when you scared me like that ?
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@pacient 0 What
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@Guy123456 Step 1. Praise the god , 2. Find a rope , 3. Hang myself
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@pacient 0 No dude don’t do that. Although I’ve reacted the same way, it’s nothing to worry about. I hate to reassure because it only keeps this hell going on longer, but we cannot change sexuality. It’s hard wired into our brains. We can’t forget it. Our brains are doing everything in their powder to try and change that. That little voice in you thag knows being gay is wrong (for you) and that your straight is the old you. We’ll get through it
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@Guy123456 Anyways Im still trying to propose to a girl to be my girlfriend
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@pacient 0 Good for you good luck with that
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@Guy123456 Hope so
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@Guy123456 But Im not brave enough
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@pacient 0 Are you doing it in real life or through text
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@Guy123456 Text she still trying to join my high school
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@Guy123456 We havent met personaly in months
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@pacient 0 Just tell her that you see something in her that most can’t and that she’s beautiful. Always works
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@Guy123456 Not for everyone but thanks
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Will ERP cure false attractions and nervousness around men
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Sexual orientation is fluid, yet your brain with OCD doesn’t change orientation, only sending out false reactions due to chemical imbalances I believe.
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What is fluid?
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@Guy123456 Sexuality and who you’re attracted to.
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