Was talking to a guy for a few months and I have health stuff that's happened on top of my ocd. (Seizures etc) and health stuff has made my ocd flare up. Lots of time im bed, lots of time to think. He came over, made moves on me, then I started questioning everything. (He wasn't clear about what we even were) Relationship ocd overload. Well he didn't wanna deal with any of it so he up and left pretty fast. Im devestated. He won't see me or really talk to me. And I feel really alone. Has anyone dealt with people leaving bc of your ocd?

Relationship OCD

ButterflyStar

Date posted: 4y

Hey! He isn't the right person if being with you in your entirity isn't what he wants. You want, we all do, want to know some and be known. I am sure you're upset and it hurts 😔❤️ But maybe you've dodged a bullet! Are you by any chance a christian? I feel like we used to talk a bit on this app

Warrior44

Date posted: 4y

Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot! And no I just got the app yesterday. Lol but I am a christian! ❤❤

ButterflyStar

Date posted: 4y

@Warrior44 Oh wow what a coincidence lol! What are you looking for in a man? Keep reading the Word to find what type of man is worthy of your heart to open to. Even if he is a Christian, it doesnt mean you are equally yoked. ❤️I think God protected you by not letting it go further. He knows what is best for you 😊

Warrior44

Date posted: 4y

@ButterflyStar You are so right. I've been reading my bible more, trying to get closer to God. And asking for him to lessen my ocd symptoms. It's so hard. I just want a guy who truly follows God and who understands my ocd. OCD already makes us feel so alone and dealing with breakups because of it, is very disheartening.

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 4y

@Warrior44 I totally can relate to this...definitely don’t settle and keep waiting for a guy who has both of those qualities!

ButterflyStar

Date posted: 4y

@Warrior44 Yes keep praying to God! Telling Him everything, He loves to hear your thoughts! Letting His Word transform you 😊❤️ His judgment on a husband is far superior than ours ❤️❤️ Proverbs 4:23 always sticks in my mind: Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Sometimes it's so hard to guard our heart, we can feel ourselves liking someone, they like us, the chase has started. But then when we open our heart and they turn out not to be the Lord's picking, our heart gets hurt. I don't personally believe in dating, because it always ends in a breakup. When I became a Christian at 24 I made a pack with the Lord to wait until He brings me my husband, clearly, *my* choices of men were terrible! And He knows more than me, right? Jesus loves you! Hold on to the Lord, because He holds your entire life together. 🌼😊

Warrior44

Date posted: 4y

@ButterflyStar Ty you so much for this. You are so great at encouraging people. I appreciate you ❤

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