Can I ask this to anyone who’s been with their partner for a very long time? Has anyone throughout their relationship obsessed about loving their partner over and over again? Then something triggers you badly to the point where you believe it’s you? I’ve had ROCD 8 years ago but never got it treated. That’s why I ask. I feel like my hoping is slipping away from me... like I feel like my relationship is gonna end and that it’s truly me... I’ve been so depressed I’ve been over eating and neglecting my hygiene... I don’t wanna go anywhere besides work and end that’s a struggle. I feel like I don’t love anyone right now...

Relationship OCD

Anonymous

Date posted: 4y

OCD always attacks those things that are important to you. Treatment will be super helpful!

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

Yeah it really does. My friend partner is getting super worried since I’ve been super clingy and I mean CLINGY... 😞

mirbrach

Date posted: 4y

I have been married for almost 17 years and for the last 3 years I have thoughts and feelings that I don’t love him anymore and that I should move on but I feel frozen and that I just can’t. I sometimes feel repulsed by him. We have 2 girls together who are 11 and almost 15. He helps out a lot with the girls. I get nightmares of wanting to get away from him as well. It’s aweful. How do I know if this is ocd or real?

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

It’s hard to tell. Before it got this bad I knew I loved my partner a lot. Right now as I am saying that my brain is saying I’m a lier. I know I cry even when I feel like I don’t wanna be with him. I’m scared that’s a sign for me big time.

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

I can’t stop crying 😞😭

Anonymous

Date posted: 4y

I struggle with this constantly. I would recommend getting treatment. It really helps.

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

Gonna start treatment tomorrow... I just feel so convinced it’s me... 😖😞

Anonymous

Date posted: 4y

Is this your pattern in relationships in general? Maybe try saying “It May or may not be me. This may or may not work out. I don’t have to decide today.”

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

I’ve never really cared this much for a person before. I’ve never went through this with my ex’s. I don’t want him to become one 😭

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

I have separation anxiety, depression and ocd... 😞

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

Depression is very high in my family...

mirbrach

Date posted: 4y

I feel like I never really loved him but the difference is now I’m paying attention to those thoughts and feelings and they are torturing me whether I should stay or move on. If I moved on I wouldn’t know where to go or how to pay the bills etc. He does so much for me. I also lost my job due to corona virus.

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

I say sign up for therapy and watch awakening into love on YouTube it’s all about ROCD. It’s difficult I know.. believe me. I get scared that I never truly loved my partner but my friend has told me I put my partner on a pedestal. She knows I love him even if I can’t see it right now.

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

Right now i am paranoid if I truly wanna have sex with my partner or not... it’s been difficult.. I do sexual things to him just haven’t had sex and the last time I did have sex I enjoyed it but felt off and afterwards had a huge panic attack. Been obsessing for a month now about this..

mirbrach

Date posted: 4y

I’m sorry...it’s so hard. I have been getting nauseous to be with my husband so it’s making my obsessions worse.

7710 ❤️

Date posted: 4y

No I understand. My partner and I were just given a dead line when we need to move out of our roommates house and I mentally started freaking out and wanted to cry. My roommate (well one of them) knows about my obsessive behavior. So I think she knows I’m freaking out.

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