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Be strong! Your feelings are not what defines you. Instead of feeling, think. Don't make choices because of how you feel, make choices with logic. Feelings come and go, they are unreliable. You might be a sensitive person like me, where feelings can over power us and we make irrational decisions. They are irrational cause our feelings are not stable. Thinking and making logical decisions are what matters. I hope this helps.
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It does... I get worried.. bc I feel like I don’t wanna be with him anymore... which makes me sad... I don’t wanna move on... 😞😞
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@Mandy7710 Me too, in my situation I get anxiety surrounding the thought of seeing or talking to my partner. But, there is no logic behind it, anxiety is a response to danger. That is illogical as my partner is not dangerous, she is very much the opposite. Anxiety and OCD work hand in hand, have you seen a therapist?
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@epr I get worried... bc I don’t feel anxiety... 😞
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@Mandy7710 And that's ok! I rather the thought without the anxiety if anything. You might just be dealing with the intrusive thought, the best thing to do is say, "ok, I have a thought, that's alright, it doesn't mean anything, move on" Our brains are so complex, there never is a black or white explanation. But if the thought goes against your choice, then no need to be scared just say well "no, that's not what I want to choose". Empower to rewire :)
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@epr I’ve been obsessing for years and years.... 😞but I never wanted to break up... then I focused on his flaws... over and over again... now even without anxiety I feel like I really don’t want him to touch me... it hurts...
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@Mandy7710 Well that's still good that the anxiety is gone. Maybe speak with a therapist about the intrusive thoughts. Separation and distancing is also a symptom of anxiety. It makes us want to be alone, run away, shelter or avoid. Don't be scared, you are strong. Challenge your thoughts. I do recommend though seeing a therapist.
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@epr I was able to kiss my partner gently last night without feeling off but right now I feel numb..
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@Mandy7710 Been overeating and shopping too much due to stress...
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@epr I’m nervous bc I feel calmer.
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@Mandy7710 That is ok :) take little baby steps, there's no rush or urgency. The numbness could possibly come from the fact that your body/mind has come accustomed to the ROCD/anxiety. Don't fret, there are times when I feel numb or distant too, that's apathy, that comes with anxiety. I really do suggest you speak with a therapist though.
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@epr The thing is I feel calmer but still feel off when I kiss him. I did cuddle with him for a long time earlier and it felt wonderful ❤️
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@Mandy7710 And that is ok too! It's wonderful a wonderful feeling. Somethings work differently for everyone, there is no rule to how you feel.
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I stare at him everytime he gets dressed I find him very attractive! But when I think about sex I still get scared...
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@Mandy7710 Yeah that's fine too :) I can't comment on the sex part but as I said before. Anxiety and OCD play a part on our physical state, they can be detrimental on our abilities.
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I think this article may help you: https://drmichaeljgreenberg.com/why-rumination-is-a-continuous-loop/
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