i just don’t think i can have lesbian fantasies and still call myself straight. even tho i cry a lot about thinking i’m bi and i usually feel bad after i fantasize about that stuff.

i just don’t think it’s that way because you’re basically just making an excuse in my opinion.

@Bryan it’s not complicated for men

@Bryan Hmm sexuality is just complicated in general, but female sexuality is a bit different. Like if you look at sexuality behavior trends men tend to be more polar whereas women tend to be more central. They don’t have an exact reason but they do think it’s evolutionary. That’s why a lot of straight women tend to watch lesbian porn or have fantasies without necessarily having the sexual attraction to go with it.

@stop. i don’t believe in evolution and i just don’t understand why people believe that it’s okay to be confused and for it to be complicated god didn’t make you to feel confused at all

@Bryan did you experiment with a guy? if so it’s in the past and it’s okay to feel shameful about it. just know it’s in the past.

@holley Well you don’t have to. Im just telling you what sexuality experts say based on research and stuff. You can believe what you want to. Just trying to help.

@holley she’s right. i’m straight and porn made me fantasize about those scenes and a friend of mine that i never saw that way. also fantasies say nothing about you, it’s just imagination and it doesn’t mean you actually wanna do it.

@Anonymous it just feels like i want to. i’ve never fantasized about a girl i know except once in my life i thought i liked this girl and i feel so bad and regret that because i ruined my life. but i just cry and cry if i fantasize about something lesbian when i’m having sex with my boyfriend. it happens more often when i masturbate alone but i’m glad i’m not the only one with lesbian fantasies.

@holley you’re not at all alone on this. many many women, outside of this disorder, have watched lesbian porn and had lesbian fantasies. honestly, you probably didn’t like the girl if it gives you this much distress, let the thoughts be. the reaction you give them makes them so much stronger. that’s why no reaction will make them feel week. everytime you get a thought, use it as erp and let all the bad feelings come and go on their own. but don’t worry hun, you aren’t the only one❤️

@Anonymous i’m just crying so hard about everything and i regret so much in my life i feel bad for thinking the things i do i just love him so much and this stuff has been affecting me so much. i just feel relieved because i feel like i’m the only girl on this forum that fantasize about lesbian sex and porn

@holley i know how you feel. i have a boyfriend too and it does get hard because we truly do love them. but this makes things difficult

@Bryan do what you please with your past. it is not my decision

@Bryan I don’t want to be fucked I want my husband