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When you see them twerk, you twerk too and do it better than them.
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Even if you get physically stimulated, it doesn't mean you are aroused. Anything remotely sexual, straight or gay, can give you an erection for both sexes. Even if you got physically aroused it doesn't mean you would have sex with a woman, it just means that your body is being a body. As a teenager, many things would give me an erection and it's normal. However my OCD keeps replaying all those events and scares me. What can you do?
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ahahah I’m the same way!! although I don’t try and and question it, like I’m straight but I admit I think other girls are hot and that’s okay! an attractive person is an attractive person and it’s okay to acknowledge that, doesn’t mean your gay or anything like that. Don’t stress. Put on some booty shorts and you twerk too ??
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Ok thankyou
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Does it not mean anything then sometimes makes me question if I’m aroused or is it just nothing
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I think all straight women can testify that we think other women are hot and attractive but we aren’t going to do anything about it or change our values- yes that’s a normal thought, but really, you shouldn’t even be asking if it’s a normal thought because just like all of pure O you could have the thought “maybe I can use this knife to harm someone” when it’s just the brain producing random meaningless thoughts, analyzing them is fruitless :)
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Thankyou it just gets to me because I don’t want to have any feelings towards girls it gets to me a lot
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Thankyou ?
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Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
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Hey guys I'm 17 years old I had experience with OCD I looked trans pornography and femboy stuff I'm straight I didn't jerk off to it I was really only looking at it in the past I have but for some reason I just felt like looking at it and when I did I did experience arousal not only that while I had a boner I simultaneously was thinking of memories and bad actions I had in 4th grade with another boy I myself not a homosexual I was a kid I did something with another boy I regret it I had that thought in my head lingering there in my head but I noticed pre ejaculation and now I feel anxiety because now it feels like I was intrigued by the thought it feels like it is it was probably to the video visual stimulus but it's hard I didn't jerk off to it at all I was really just looking idk what to do it feels like I did experience it to the video but also my thoughts say to the thought idk what to do can someone shed light on this
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Hi everyone, I’ve been really anxious lately, and I just need to get this out of my head. Someone recently told me that maybe I’m bisexual — that I might be more sexually attracted to women, but more romantically attracted to men. That bisexuality is not 50/50. And ever since I heard that, I’ve been spiraling. The thing is: I don’t want this to be true. It scares me. I don’t feel romantic attraction to women, I’ve never wanted to be in a relationship with one. But yes, I get aroused by fantasies involving women — and that makes me feel broken or like I’ve been lying to myself. I love my boyfriend deeply, I don’t want to lose him. I want to feel fully connected to him, physically and emotionally. But now I’m stuck in this obsessive loop of questioning: “What if I’m just in denial?” “What if I’m not really straight?” “What if this is why my libido is low?” It’s exhausting, and I don’t know if this is OCD, anxiety, or if something is fundamentally wrong. Has anyone else felt this split — romantic feelings for one gender, sexual feelings for another? I feel so alone and scared. Thanks for listening.
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