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Erp doesn’t have to be so technical. A lot of people can’t afford going to/having sessions with an ocd therapist so they can actually start doing ERP on their own. You can start off by watching, listening, or reading something that you used to enjoy that now triggers a subtype and see how well you handle it. And if you get anxious, “maybe I do, maybe I don’t.” “maybe I will, maybe I won’t.”
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For me I have been doing ERP on my own and have noticed significant progress! I was struggling with suicide ocd (having thoughts of killing myself/harming myself that I DID NOT want to do). I also had OCD about becoming depressed, etc. Anyway, I started by doing 15 minute ERP sessions with a knife and just dropped my guard against the thoughts and just let them exist. There was one instance where everything just clicked. I had tried ERP before but I was doing it with a misunderstanding that when you do it, you try not to have the thoughts. Well, I learned that it’s truly about letting your mind throw any and all thoughts at you, and realizing that they’re powerless and will not hurt you. It’s our reaction to the thoughts that drives the OCD. So when I was sitting there and having literally all kinds of self harm thoughts (at one point I couldn’t think clearly at all) I had my first true breakthrough in 2 years of struggling with it. No matter what my mind throws at me, I am in control of my body, I am in control of how I choose to respond to them. So yes, you can do ERP alone and see positive results, it’s just a bit more difficult. Hope this has helped :)
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Ditto!!!!
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thank you so much for sharing, this really does inspire me!
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I wouldn’t advise trying it on your own especially for the first time. Especially bc a lot of the time one of our fears is... “did I do it right? Or am I a bad person now?” Your therapist will start you off w the thing that gives u the least amount of anxiety. It’s best to do guided ones w them at first. Would you like me to ask my therapist what her advice is about ERP if someone doesn’t have access to a specialist?
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I don't have access to one either in my region.😟 If you do ask your therapist it would be really appreciated ❤
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that would be amazing if you could ask them. thank you so much!
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if you have mild to moderate ocd then i think it's completely fine to do some erp by yourself, as long as you're educated enough on it
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I’ve noticed that I’m somewhat happier also ignoring my thoughts than I am instead of doing compulsions (I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired atp) but I’ve heard you’re technically supposed to do erp rather than pushing under the rug. But idk if I have a thought I just refuse to think about it again and im fine even if I want to do compulsions
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I’m starting NOCD. I had several years of cbt as a child (well over 20 years ago) and I see a trauma therapist. But now I’ll be seeking further help for OCD and just really scared. CBT wasn’t helpful for me. How has ERP been helpful for you? Do you feel like you’ll finally get your life back? I’m consumed by my obsessions 😢 Would love others feedback if ERP helped you ❤️
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I am doing ERP by my own because I can’t afford therapy. I exposed myself to babies photos online, changing diapers videos, baby genitalia . All was done with google . I honestly feel like I am predator by viewing these photos even though they are just babies. I seen also a picture on research article of a female patient she is a minor and they have done sexual abuse check on her . The image was so triggering, it was literally a vagina. ℹ developed lots if obsessions with increased groinal responses. And now I fear that I enjoyed all what I have seen.
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