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- 4y ago
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- 4y ago
Erp doesn’t have to be so technical. A lot of people can’t afford going to/having sessions with an ocd therapist so they can actually start doing ERP on their own. You can start off by watching, listening, or reading something that you used to enjoy that now triggers a subtype and see how well you handle it. And if you get anxious, “maybe I do, maybe I don’t.” “maybe I will, maybe I won’t.”
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- 4y ago
For me I have been doing ERP on my own and have noticed significant progress! I was struggling with suicide ocd (having thoughts of killing myself/harming myself that I DID NOT want to do). I also had OCD about becoming depressed, etc. Anyway, I started by doing 15 minute ERP sessions with a knife and just dropped my guard against the thoughts and just let them exist. There was one instance where everything just clicked. I had tried ERP before but I was doing it with a misunderstanding that when you do it, you try not to have the thoughts. Well, I learned that it’s truly about letting your mind throw any and all thoughts at you, and realizing that they’re powerless and will not hurt you. It’s our reaction to the thoughts that drives the OCD. So when I was sitting there and having literally all kinds of self harm thoughts (at one point I couldn’t think clearly at all) I had my first true breakthrough in 2 years of struggling with it. No matter what my mind throws at me, I am in control of my body, I am in control of how I choose to respond to them. So yes, you can do ERP alone and see positive results, it’s just a bit more difficult. Hope this has helped :)
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- 4y ago
Ditto!!!!
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- 4y ago
thank you so much for sharing, this really does inspire me!
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- 4y ago
I wouldn’t advise trying it on your own especially for the first time. Especially bc a lot of the time one of our fears is... “did I do it right? Or am I a bad person now?” Your therapist will start you off w the thing that gives u the least amount of anxiety. It’s best to do guided ones w them at first. Would you like me to ask my therapist what her advice is about ERP if someone doesn’t have access to a specialist?
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- 4y ago
I don't have access to one either in my region.😟 If you do ask your therapist it would be really appreciated ❤
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- 4y ago
that would be amazing if you could ask them. thank you so much!
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- 4y ago
if you have mild to moderate ocd then i think it's completely fine to do some erp by yourself, as long as you're educated enough on it
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- 24w ago
i would like some advice please and i didn't get any responses 😭.. apologies for reposting but just need some thoughts on this 🥲 //// after frustrations with erp not working, i intentionally brought up the intrusive mental images as well as sensations during an exposure in trying to practice desensitizing myself to them. but now im scared that me purposefully bringing on the images and especially the disturbing outward sensations means that i did something bad or acted on my thought since i took the action to purposefully create and bring the disturbing intrusive images and thoughts and feelings. now it feels like not just a fear but reality. and my anxiety levels are just too much. i'm just feeling terrible and would like some thoughts or support
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- 19w ago
i don’t think i can, i can’t stomach the possibility of these things, or maybe i can (because they might be true and deep down i know that) and just don’t want to and want to pretend it isn’t there. i can’t do ERP, i just want to pretend it isnt there and won’t happen to clarify, i know i have to do ERP, i know it’s necessary; i don’t need to be told this, this is just how i am feeling currently
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- 16w ago
I have contamination OCD that causes me to excessively wash my hands/clean items with disinfectant wipes. I know I just need to start with small exposures but how do I do that without spiraling? I tried a while back by just touching the outside of my dishwasher and not washing my hands after and it led to me being unable to even exist in my house. I basically lived on my couch for three weeks as it was the only 'safe' space that I had not touched with my dirty hands. I had to take a week off work to clean my house to make it somewhat liveable. I still haven't got round to cleaning everything though so things like my kitchen are still no-go zones that I don't enter. I just don't know how to start ERP without it making everything worse. Any advice would be appreciated. I am not seeing a therapist at the moment due to financial constraints.
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