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no, that is transphobic. if someone identifies as a girl, they are a girl. it doesn’t matter whats in their pants
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But it does matter what their chromosomes say. I do think everybody has the freedom to do what they want. But to say that someone who is born as a man is a women is scientifically wrong. However, I agree that if people want to say they are another gender, that's fine. But don't push these 'theories' to people's throat.
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@Mb That's why they call me them transgender womem/mem. Because their biology doesn't fit their gender. Ofc their bodies are gonna be/function differently than cisgender people. However transgender women are women and transgender men are men. And liking them doesn't make a person gay if they identify and present as the opposite sex
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@notfortalk I'm in now wat saying being transgender is wrong. I really have nothing against people who are transgender and I wouldn't treat them any different. Also I have to say that in no way experienced in this topic. But if their biology doesn't fit their gender, it seems to me that this looks like mental illness. How can people know they are a women while being a men and vice versa? Again, I don't have any knowledge about this so i would appreciate if you could explain this to me. If read articles about transgender people being schizophrenic, or some other type of mental illness. How do they know they are something while being another gender?
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@Mb Actually transgender people suffer from gender dysphoria which is a mental illness that a lot of people try to deny. The thing is everyone can have distressing feelings towards their gender. You can either outgrow them or they can lead to finding out you're transgender. It's a whole biological thing. We don't chose the way our brain works, our genetic map does. It's like sexuality. Heterosexual people exist, homosexual people exist, bisexual people exist, even though the female brain is wired to be attracted to men and the male brain is wired to be attracted to women. It's all because of biology and the way hormones affect our dna. Sexuality and gender are different things however they work in very similar ways
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@Mb Facts like I would feel kinda unsafe if a trans women came to the women’s bathroom
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@soup We said we respect what they want to be called
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@soup He or she has a penis
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@Peridottttt @peridottttt Who says that she has a penis?
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@notfortalk Your trans
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@Peridottttt @peridottttt no I'm not💀
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@notfortalk No not you
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@soup She has every right to be afraid you don’t know if they genuinely are trans or just a pervert and trying to get into the toilets. She is not transphobic a phobia is a fear. I don’t fear trans people and I don’t agree with it. That’s my opinion and my freedom to a opinion. Let’s get back to helping each other with our ocd now. 👍👍
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@soup I do respect them some are dangerous not all
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@danny02 @danny02 of course as a women you're afraid of that. However you wouldn't even know if that person going into the bathroom is trans. We shouldn't even go in the same bathrooms as other women then because women can be perverts too.
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@Peridottttt @peridottttt some transgender people are dangerous. Some cisgender people are dangerous. People are dangerous, no matter what they have in between their legs or who they are attracted to. Evil people will always exist. But separating cisgender people from trans people is only gonna do more harm and create more division
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@soup I never said I don’t agree with there exsistance and you need to understand I’m not coming from a position of hate. But what I am stating is a reality. It is easy for a man to overpower a woman and just as easy these days to identify as whatever you want and not be questioned. This is silly
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@danny02 Thisss
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@danny02 @danny02 But by your logic we shouldn't go anywhere men are. If a man wants to rape a woman he's gonna do it regardless of where he is. The problem is not trans people, but sexual predators. And we should think about re-educating them, not creating a "cis-trans segregation"
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@notfortalk K
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@soup I don’t hate TRANS PEIPLE OMG
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@soup And we please just end this conversation this been going for hours okay no hate I respect your opinion
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But but they are biologically not that but like I respect who they want to be
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@soup There’s only two gender
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@Peridottttt I believe you are correct and you are allowed to have your opinion and you are not transphobic for having a opinion. I wish no ill will on anyone even if they identify as trans but I still see them as there biological scientific gender. A man who identifies as a woman is not a woman. If he had woman DNA and a womb ect then I would classify him as a woman. That’s my opinion and I don’t hate on anyone and that person has free will to become a man woman whatever they want as that is what freedom is! but I also have freedom to a opinion. Lots of love guys and let’s keep helping each other with our ocd 🙏
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I keep seeing tiktoks of things that are like ‘things I did as a lesbian in denial’ or ‘things my not so straight straight friend said’ and I feel like I might relate to some!! But idk!! It’s kinda triggering me. I’ve had this 5 years on and off now so when it comes back the whole well you’ve had it so long you must be gay comes up. I have been with my boyfriend almost 6 years and i love him so much I don’t want to be gay (nothing weong with it - I’m just not and don’t want to be!)
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What is it about getting a groinal réaction, feeling like you are into it with the not-prefered gender and not getting any with you partner and prefered gender? As i am not fzeling anxiety it really confuses me like do i want to have a girl not a boy
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I'm sorry if I'm bringing religion into this but I grew up around those beliefs. Listen I really don't like the thought of considering that I could homophobic cause of religious-like beliefs. This has been bothering me which is why I kinda stepped away from religion and faith cause it just seemed way too hateful and controlling. I'm a heavy people pleaser and an empath. I would like it if lgbt people and religious people could help me feel better <3 I'll try to explain how I feel. I have religious beliefs that being gay is a sin. I grew up around Christan beliefs but I was taught to hate the sin and not the person <3 like respect the person. Always! I respect people for who they are cause I was taught we're all born sinners in the end but I'm also taught in my religion that it's important to try and stop sin. But we can always be forgiven if we catch ourselves sinning that's the beauty of it no matter the sin except for blasphemy of course. I just do not understand the gay agenda. And that's just me that doesn't mean I'm going to go around hating and bullying others. I don't that that's not right period. Religion or no religion. It's just wrong in general especially if someone is just being their selves or figuring out who they are. I just think people get this mixed up. Like I just don't get it I'm not one to be attracted to the same gender I'm just not that person. I'm more traditional. But I don't like being a hater... but I still want to respect others. Like I even had intrusive thoughts of being attracted to the same gender because I thought someone was pretty 😂 but it's not like that I'm more like ("slay queen!"). But attracted??? No, to me it's just weird for me in my perspective doesn't mean I don't respect others, I do I really do. I just don't understand. And I hate having the thoughts that I may sound hateful cause of such religious like beliefs. I even had an old couple of friends in school a long time ago or knew a few people and I always respected them! <3 because a few of them were super nice and were cool. Like idgaf as long as you're nice and chill!
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