Had sex with my wife and keep having thoughts about sex with a dude in the middle of it... but I stayed hard cause she was kissing on me and of course I was stimulated. But it seems like I legit want it now. And it’s killing me. I barely feel anxiety anymore or uncomfortable just no I don’t want to be gay but my mind is giving me every reason why I am. Therapy’s not working for me. Cause it doesn’t seem like I’m triggered by anything anymore.

Same here. Nothing seems to be triggering me, not even my main triggers

My daughter was doing a rumination this morning in the bathroom to prove she is straight - imagining a scene with a girl - then imagined a scene with A boy - she does this all day long - literally all day long . It’s so hard to get out of this cycle.

I want to help her so bad

So I try not to bring it up

This has happened to me before and it can be very confusing. My thoughts tend to surface when I don't want them to. The classic don't think of a pink elephant scenario and you'll think of a pink elephant. Do your best to say so what and stay present :)

So basically not bring it up at all unless she wants to bring it up right ?

Can you please - my daughter is starting to completely spiral out of control- it is so so so hard for her. I feel sad for her - please feel free to call me at 9732621893

Hi Bryan - are you available to talk - I don’t have your phone number stored

So I cannot call you