I must be bi or gay its like i find men more attractive than women. I just want to love women like i once did and have that desire back 😥

Ask these questions to yourself (peacefully): * Is the change influenced by any event? (Eg- Reading/seeing any male- male rape stories etc.) * Are you liking what you are feeling? * Did you ever had thoughts about homosexuality before? Tip : Compare your so-called attraction to men with that of women (your previous one) and notice the differences... All the best.

I dont get excited when thinking of men they dont excite me like women used to i used to feel great 😞

Hmm..yea... What do you feel when you look at a hot looking guy?

Anxeity then i get thoughts

Do you feel anxious, disgusted while you see hot looking girl?

Cool... Coming back... You need to actually understand what homosexuality exactly is. Homosexuality is something with which people are born with...you are born heterosexual and now having OCD.. According to your answers there are two possibilities: I) you are a normal OCD patient (if it's OCD, then you're straight! ) II) you are a queer with no gender conformity at birth and now you're discovering your orientation. You need to answer the remaining questions to proceed.

I thought one of my mates was good looking. I just saw a picture of some good looking guy sitting there in his pants and my whole body felt weird and a feeling in my stomach. Like i was scared i think

Ive never had sex with a male. But my mind tells me i want to be with a man and i get these feelings this is the one that makes me so upset. I remember how much i loved women and i feel like im never going to get it back. And im always going to feel like this 😥

My head is so muddled i cant trust it. In my head i say i want a boyfreind and im not sure if its true 😥

You are unsure about yourself... I suspect it is an OCD... But it depends on your thoughts...list them and analyse them...no panic...never give up...you CAN...good bye 🙂👍🔥

Mate i need your help. Ive had this going on and off for 16 years how i has it come to this and got so bad?

No but my head does say eww pussy but ive always loved going down on girls etc but now im not sure. Sometimes it hard to find them attractive with this going on in my head. Which breaks my heart 😥

Are you a member of sex clubs or sex addict?

No i have a gf. But things arnt great

You said going down on "girls"

Oral on girls is what i mean ?. What do you think is happening here ? 😞

Are you there buddy?

I have no idea. I didnt have 1 gay thought until the age of 22 as i can remember. Always girl crazy this happened after 1 thought after a night out. Im 37 now and things have got so bad its all i think about 😥

Remember, if you cry, you are welcoming your own destruction...don't cry...be strong like me...(secret-im a teenager who kicked 75% of my hocd)

Well, describe your first gay thought...

Final question: Do you fantasize/like fantasizing having sex with a male?

Observe the differences between the given below thoughts: 1. "I want to have sex with a male... It is really awesome" 2. " What if I have sex with a male? It is disgusting...I never thought of it". Now, I suspect you to be an OCD patient and you might be getting Type 2 thoughts. Analyse your thoughts...write them down to make them clear. And if it is ... Then you are totally straight (heterosexual). And this condition is called Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (HOCD) or "fear of being gay". It happens to 1/40 people (including me). Don't panic...seems you have done very little research. Watch this video : https://youtu.be/clOlsecReow

You cannot proceed until you understand your thoughts clearly ...

So how do i know?

Lemme tell you my experience... I've met a boy on internet as a friend. I was always an introvert. He shared his story of being raped by a man and he later turned gay (Although this is mostly fake, he might be going through PTSD). I was a weak minded, overthinking idiotic guy. I was disturbed by his story. I was disturbed, anxious and stressed. I felt the drop of testosterone levels in me (temporary). On the day1, I felt disgusting while looking at men of all ages. Day 2, reduced attraction to opposite gender. Day 3 - Hit with HOCD. Until 5th day, I didn't understood my situation and my research helped me. I felt like, "I always dreamt of being an inspiration for boys in good character and attitude, but am I becoming gay? Man...I never dreamt of this shit (no offence)... My life...going to be destroyed?? I also dreamt of love marrying a girl and then having a happy life..." First 4 days were almost like nofap Flatline. Also, I attempted maaany gender test, "am I gay" tests in Google. BUT On day 5, I have researched on my condition and I have found it as Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (HOCD) or "fear of being gay". I've also researched on "What is OCD?"..."why it happens?" Etc etc... And I have also learnt about the cure called "Exposure response prevention". The main aim is to break the chain between Obsession and Compulsion. See, when you react to an obsession to put it off, your mind relaxes and releases chemicals. And you sking mind want it to happen again and again. So, it repeatedly causes obsession in the form of "intrusive thoughts" and you keep on reacting to it and it releases chemicals and it becomes exactly like an addiction. When you deny compulsion, you brain says..."oh okay...sorry...no chemicals". And this OCD chain breaks away. I used this technique for a month added with motivation, willpower, confidence and optimism. Music helped me alot! After a month...believe me...75% of symptoms disappeared.