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hey, i’m really sorry your mom wasn’t as supportive as she could’ve been :( just know that you’ve got a whole community here that cares about you and is here to help! i personally have also had a really hard time talking to my mom about my OCD, and it feels really shameful and almost wrong to talk about. the thing that’s helped me with this is writing down what i want to tell her so that i can explain it better without panicking or having emotions that would normally come from a face to face conversation
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This community's great, it makes me feel less alone since I'm aware that there's others going through the same things I am :)
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If you’re old enough, you should go for it regardless of what she says. This is your brain, your body and if you think medication will benefit you a lot! Do it. If you’re not 18+ to go to the doctor on your own then you should wait until then but ask to speak to someone because therapy will at least help you hang in there. You got this ! Dont ever let someone who cares about what others think, make you feel like that matters more than your mental health
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Unfortunately since I'm not 18+, I'll have to wait awhile longer until I can go to the doctors in the meantime I'll search for someone I can speak to, tysm for the encouragement :)
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Remind your mom that she is not a licensed psychiatrist and that you’d rather listen to their advice in regards to whether or not you should go on medication. I’m so sorry she’s not taking your symptoms and distress seriously. If she’s at least open to accepting this diagnosis, you could try to find a licensed ocd specialist now who could treat you for ocd with erp therapy. That will be the best treatment for you regardless of what else you do (in patient treatment, medication, etc).
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Tysm, I'll try to find an OCD specialist I can speak to :)
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- 25w
She laughed and said that everyone has these thoughts "i didn't tell her about the REALLY fucked up thoughts i experience cuz i was kinda scared" and then she said it's the demon just say ur prayers and they'll go away Even though i kept on trying and trying to convince her that they're clearly not normal but she kept on refusing and it kinda sounded like she didn't want to admit and believe that her daughter has a mental illness which sucks
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Having ocd is so incredibly exhausting and depressing- my mom and dad argued with me for over an hour talking about how im a pain to be around, go in too many loops, and ruin everything and everyones mood… this conversation started with me saying im stressed out because of school and that i dont want to go because im exhausted- and idk if this is like ocd directly but it takes me like 2 hours to get ready in the morning because i need to look PERFECT and the same everyday literally 😭 and that process feels so exhausting every morning at 6am but i will NOT go to school without going through with it- i will literally be crying and shaking and wanting to go home the minute i get to school if even a single strand of my hair is not perfectly straightened or any blemishes or flaws are showing- and i cant even walk to school or anything bc im scared the humidity will mess with my hair and everything- and it just really affects my life? And yeah its freaking exhausting. And i have two more years of highschool and I dont know if im going to make it 😭i get super stressed over grades too because i need them to be extraordinary otherwise its a fail. Nothing below 95%. And thats also tiring! 😁 and my mom told me today “medication IS NOTTTT AND OPTION!!!” Like oh okay so im just cooked 😭 and therapy isnt really helping me at all- i feel like what im being told is so basic and generic and it doesn’t help me when im in a huge ocd episode- which is often… and what i hate most is like my mom says “don’t come to me with your problems after 6pm…” im sorry i cant schedule my feelings 😭 im so tired
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my mom has been on this adhd kick where she thinks everyone has adhd instead of what they actually have because apparently it can present itself as anxiety. well i told her i was taking prozac because that’s something she needs to know since i still live at home. and she’s fine with it because it’s my choice. however, she comes into my room because she sent me a video about adhd. in the video, at the end, it says “girls with adhd may develop perfectionist or obsessive compulsive tendencies.” THEN, she has the audacity to tell me my compulsions didn’t start to show until after high school when that isn’t true at all. i just never talked about it, but of course she doesn’t believe me. i just feel so invalidated because after all of the hell i’ve been through, to be told i don’t have what i most certainly am positive i do have is atrocious. i would lose my mind if i was told i didn’t have ocd because of the intrusive thoughts i get that make me feel like a terrible person. i feel like being told that sets me back so far and makes me want to thought spiral a bit. i’m so upset.
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