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holley

Date posted: 4y

okay so correct me if i’m wrong but i think i’ve been really confused for a while: so sexual attraction is finding a specific person sexually attractive and wanting to have sex with them arousal: is finding a specific fantasy or porn hot and getting aroused by this. or whatever “turns you on” i get aroused by lesbian fantasies sometimes but i get real confused because in the moment i imagine myself in that position and sometimes it feels like i actually want that? but how could i want that i don’t experience sexual attraction to girls. maybe that’s just because i’m in a relationship with a man but if we broke up i don’t think i would find another girl in real life sexually attractive.

Sexual Orientation OCD

Anonymoussssss

Date posted: 4y

Fantasy isn’t the same as reality. When you fantasise about something, in your head it feels safe and great but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’d want that in real life. There are some people that fantasise about being raped and that arouses them, it doesn’t mean they’d want that in real life. In their mind these things feel safe to engage with bc it’s not actually real.

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