Hocd talk anyone ?

Can you have false attraction and loss of attraction to gentials.. ?

@Ihateocd83 Yes

@hocd_sufferer This really bothers me its like im in denial and thoughts go into detail like i actually want to be with a man 😞

@Ihateocd83 Same but these are thoughts I tell you if you have hocd you are note straight than others

@rajiv123 What do you mean mate ?

@Ihateocd83 I say you more straight than other

@rajiv123 I loved women more than anything in this world .... i even doubt i ever did 😞

@Ihateocd83 Dude, I'm there with you. I'm doing a bit better in terms of not reacting to the thoughts and letting them be but it like mind is pulling out all the stops to get me back into obsessing and that includes making it feel like I cant get females back.

Cheers buddy 👍

I been doing ok. Keeping up with my exposures (they're not easy but I'm doing them), trying to go out more, been working out more and learning how to sit with the anxiety and the thoughts. I'm not perfect and still have bad days, but I'm learning and managing. How r u bro? Have you started therapy?

Same thing happened to me this morning with the dreams. From what I understand, if it having a good day and suddenly your dreams start to trigger, its because HOCD is doing it's best to bring you back down. HOCD will make you think about the worst shit imaginable just to keep you obsessing (because the mind thinks its keeping you safe by bringing it up) and that includes dudes and their bits...

That's good. I have too. Come back if you need to vent but stay off if you can. Keep your head up bro!!!!

Same man, i havent came back since like 3 days, im trying rlly hard as most of these give me reassurance

@hocd_sufferer I had an ok couple of days and now just have men in my head again 😞

Either way, that's trying too hard. I'm trying to not try when it comes to chicks because it feels like loss of attraction is gonna win if I try 😔. I was doing well but I had a kinda rough night.

Fighting is what got us here. I know the feeling, hell I still fall victim to it. But I try to refocus. Everytime my mind tries to make things worse, I try to not fight. Instead I try to say "its fine". Fighting will make it worse...

Had a bad evening. Mostly the feeling hit me after a trigger (I was able to face down the trigger). That feeling really fucking sucked. I'm trying to just only have it be a setback. Gotta keep moving.

@Jbm421 Bro this shit is so bad bro. Legit when i get groinal it legit feels like my private is going crazy, can this stop please. Literally before hocd i forgot gay people existed, now with it 22 hours a day i obsess about this dumb shit

@hocd_sufferer I feel you bro. The way the triggers hit is so freaking convincing in the moment. It feels like you'll never get out of the that moment. Thankfully groinals aren't my issue at the moment (not that they dont hit and they suck when they do) but my mind is jumping all over the place with this. It sucks because I was doing well but it feels like I fucked all that up.