Anonymous
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It’s deffinitley a good exposure- I haven’t quite mastered how to respond to it though. It drums up a lot of anxiety for me and I think my anxiety comes from immediate rumination around the similarities between what I’m going through now an SO OCD
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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the more we sit with it and try not to ruminate the less anxiety it will cause us
lkkkk1234lkkkk1234
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I feel like I just use these as a compulsion cos I’m like oh well I’ve never felt this way so it’s fine problem solved, But it never really makes me feel better anyway
Gosu123Gosu123
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That’s how I feel niw
lkkkk1234lkkkk1234
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@Gosu123 Like I don’t even get anxious cos I’m like cool it ain’t me but it just doesn’t help at all because I ruminate about it all day everyday
zaiayah_.zaiayah_.
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Hey, I’m a female. I realised that when I’m watching porn, I feel more sexually aroused to the woman’s moans and body, and I’m attracted to a dominant man with submissive moans/mid pitch moans. I feel like I’m bisexual and it’s not HOCD and it’s killing me.
Gosu123Gosu123
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This is why I don’t want to watch them even though I’ve heard it’s good exposure? Is it worth watching them or?
Gosu123Gosu123
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I know I’m going to end up comparing what I’ve got and between that as well but I’ll try it then now
Gosu123Gosu123
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Thanks for the repmy
AnonymousAnonymous
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It kinda sucks :/ I’m just hoping the end goal out weighs all of this
Gosu123Gosu123
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I just watched Dylan geick or somethings video on YouTube and his coming out story
Gosu123Gosu123
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@Gosu123 I could kinda relate cause he says he’s an athlete etc and he was quite masculine etc which I play football or soccer if your american but I just couldn’t really relate to the way he fell about guys or anything and I don’t feel any urge or anything to come out or explore my sexuality
Gosu123Gosu123
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Also sorry for spamming your post kinda gave me somewhere to vent lol
AnonymousAnonymous
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It’s tottaly cool- I get that- I don’t struggle emotionally cause I never have been emotionally attracted towards women. With groinals and sexual things that’s what scares me in the coming out stories.. and the feeling it’s real? But us analyzing how we are similar is probably feeding all of this. We probably should respond with more of a acceptance of maybe we are similar maybe we aren’t but it doesn’t matter
holleyholley
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same i feel the same way there’s a lot of similarities
AnonymousAnonymous
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What are the similarities for you? For me I doubt my relationships and feelings towards men and question my level of attraction and connection and wonder if I would find that with a woman like all these people do
holleyholley
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@Anonymous idk i keep having the thought that i’m in denial and i know if and that’s something that bi people go through, they fantasize about the same sex which bothers me every time it gets me, i’m a 2 on the kinsey scale, i’m curious about sex with a woman but i don’t even know if i would like it and bi people don’t have to experiment to know they just know so that’s something i can’t relate to but idk i don’t get crushes on girls and i don’t feel sexually attracted to girls irl
AnonymousAnonymous
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@holley That’s how I feel too.. like I don’t just “know” or even feel that pull towards women in real life. I don’t get crushes on girls either and I have had big ones on men. But since I haven’t really found my personal yet I wonder if this is why and all signs point towards this was why the whole time
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