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- 6y ago
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- 6y ago
I am also addicted to porn. Some percent of people have a strong desire for frequent having a sex whenever possible. They will be so horny forever and they are expected to find a way for a temporary pleasure atleast. It's never ever a bad thing to watch porn in our daily life. Also, if it's giving a feel of addiction, the time lapse will give you a boring feel which can deviate your seduction. Watching the lesbian or gay or transsexualistic contents will not harm on any thing.
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- 6y ago
Are you assuming that you are gay for not watching heterosexual porn anymore? Following, do you believe whatever form of porn you watch determines your own sexuality?
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- 6y ago
I think you need to test that prediction then. Also porn addicts really mimic a lot of hocd and POCD and also rocd and tocd themes in this disorder. Go on nofap forums. I use it way less now and really want to stop altogether as I have overused in the past so it really is like acholoism. Don’t forget you now have a very active dopamine circuit that wants the fix as soon as possible. It will do and send anything to you to get it.
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- 6y ago
It can be a night mare. I take breaks and even when I engage in sex and self stim with none of that, I’m getting proper urges and aches to basically cum. Then we get the lovely images and thoughts. Which is so nice!! I need to reboot on so many levels guys. Way beyond my sexual ocd which I think is only a symptom.
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- 6y ago
I'm right there with you mate.
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- 6y ago
@nicky371 yes. I I watched a video saying that one of the ways to get rid of porn addiction is to get rid of anything that has to deal with porn. So follow a lot of models and porn stars on instagram so I thought If I was to unfollow them I wouldn’t have anything to look at and that could be gay
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- 6y ago
@Soniclen said it well. You can get seriously addicted to porn and masturbation to the point that it ruins your real life sex drive.
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- 6y ago
All of u that are saying porn is bad are the same people who r in a relationship. As for me I’m a nerd in high school that has never had a girlfriend. So what am I supposed to do to make my self sexually happy again without porn. What is too much porn. Is once a day fine? Or once a week?
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- 6y ago
@Jalen I have recently gone through something similar to your situation. I did not beat myself up about because I knew like everything else there was a way to help this urge and soon relieve it. I continued with it and eventually I naturally got bored and also I kind of got disgusted by it. Idk maybe this may not be the way you end it but this is how I did. Maybe I’m just hardheaded and chose to continue knowing internally that it would stop.
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- 17w ago
Sorry if this is a bit of an odd post, but I’m wondering if there are any girls out there that have specifically struggled with shame around watching porn? A lot of my real-event ocd stems from watching that kind of content in the past, and for some reason it feels particularly taboo as a woman. As a young teen, I saw some genuinely disturbing things, and I think a lot of that was to do with having unrestricted access to the internet. However, despite lots of people telling me “that’s normal teen curiosity” it just never feels like it applies to me, and that I’m genuinely just a sexual deviant. I think because that kind of content is so graphic and overstimulating it’s really stuck in my brain, and I just wish I could turn back the clock and switch off the computer. I’ve recently been struggling with doing typical ‘girly’ stuff because I feel tainted and gross, and I just want to get back to feeling myself again.
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- 15w ago
I’m sharing this bc I need advice or even support from anyone who can relate. If you can’t relate and don’t think you’ll say anything helpful or kind pls don’t comment anything… I’ve been struggling with somethings that’s making me question myself. There has been moments while self pleasuring when I get intrusive thoughts, in those moments it feels like I’m enjoying or even self pleasuring myself bc of the thought. Right after I immediately have an anxiety attack and my HEART drops bc it feels terrible I feel like a disgusting monster :( ppl have told me I haven’t done a bad bc of how intense my guilt and panic are but I keep thinking that MAYBE I made a horrible decision in the moment and the guilt is just realising that it’s just wrong this doesn’t make sense to me because I’ve always told myself that I would never act on this in 1 million years and I’ve been known that these things are wrong so I’m just like constantly questioning myself these feelings and exact same situation has happened two times already I even promised myself that I wouldn’t act on anything beforehand and yeah, I still felt like I did act on my thought during my alone time I’m genuinely convinced that I’m a horrible and it’s even got into the point where I don’t wanna be here anymore and I don’t even think this is my OCD :( tbh
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- 13w ago
Sometimes I think " do I like kids?" "Would i get aroused if I saw content with kids?""What if I'm a pedo and cant accept it?" "What if I'm ok with these thoughts?" "What if I'm not distressed enough " "What if I enjoy these thoughts?" , i avoid kids as much as i can, i cant look at them bc I'm scared I'm gonna have some groin like response. I keep testing if I'd get turned on or if I'd have some groinal response to sexual scenarios with kids. Sometimes I think that if I took my life this would be over and i wouldn't have to think about this and i wish i doubted something else instead of things like this. I had similar situations just with different topics such as if i loved or found sexually appealing a guy while in a relationship and i kept asking myself those questions for months and i avoided going to school for weeks and when I went I'd cry and have anxiety attacks. I had it with past actions i obessed over and felt the need to exploit every detail and be honest because otherwise i was being a fraud. I had it for sexual things that happened when i was a child. Im not diagnosed with ocd but should i tell this to my local counselor? Can someone help? Give me advice or tell me anything?
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