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I have to say this simple statement that I just read from you to ignore them and not to give into them was very helpful for me because I have been looping for two days with my heart and thoughts and they are so unbelievable and they want to pull you in like a river that is out of control and once you get in it’s very hard to get out of them and I mistakenly started thinking about one thought yesterday and it led me into a rabbit hole of disaster and all I’ve been feeling is guilt and failure and like everything is over because of that occurrence they are just so difficult to stay away from but I love what you said. Definitely helped to remind me that I am not alone with us and the above person is not alone either and it’s just a constant battle it feels like to have a good day despite the things that go on in our minds.🙏🏻
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It is so hard but you have to just try to ignore them. Don’t give in the thoughts because then you give it the power to keep going in your head
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Oops heart thoughts = Harm thoughts! Typo
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Yes!! And sometimes I have my bad days where I just feel weaker than others, but I’ve had ocd since I was in 3rd grade and now I’m 21.. so I’m at the stage in my life where I really don’t want to be bothered anymore with negativity, even if it includes my thoughts. I feel like as the years go on, I’m loosing energy and it’s starting to even scare me so I’m really just forcing myself to enjoy the little things and try not to overthink on things that I know will get me overthinking it the whole day and over analyzing. I’m glad that simple statement helped you. It is definitely easier said than done but it takes practice. And I think the key is to not overthink it or make it complicated. Just make it what it is. Don’t give in the thoughts. Don’t overthink it
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Thank you for this! So grateful 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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Humor. I told my therapist I was having thoughts of stabbing and cutting off his head and he said you better use a sharp. Knife I don’t want it to hurt as much! It comforted me and made me laugh bcuz he knew it was just ocd
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Hahah that’s good y’all made a joke about it to almost make the ocd look like a fool
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I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? 😅
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OK, this might sound really dumb, but when you guys get intrusive thoughts, do they just come once and then go away? I’ve heard that repeatedly thinking about an intrusive thought is considered ‘checking,’ but it doesn’t feel like I have any control over how many times it comes up in my head. It’s not like I’m trying to check anything—it just keeps showing up, almost like it’s terrorizing me every time. I can’t seem to stop it from looping, stop remembering it, or prevent it from coming up. Every time it does, I feel horrified, and I already know it’s going to horrify me. I don’t think I’m actively trying to see if my feelings have changed, so is this still considered checking? How do other people get an intrusive thought and just move on? Doesn’t it pop up a million times for them too? I always thought that was normal, but now I’m hearing this could be a compulsion, and I feel really confused, scared, and lost. Is this why my OCD feels so extreme? Because I really don’t feel like I can control how many times the thought pops up.
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How do I stop letting my intrusive thoughts control me? Ive been having them for almost a year, once I graduated, become more isolated and lost more friends they've become worse. I feel like when I had friends and was still going to school they weren't as bad probably because I was living more so I didn't take them as seriously. But now that Im home all day and alone they've gotten worse and it feels like they're starting to control my life. Theres times where Im on social media and eventually I forget about them but then when I realize I forgot about them they come back. Sometimes the thought just lingers it doesn't even just pop in my head and go away. I can't tell anyone in my family because they'd judge me for the thoughts and they don't really believe in mental illnesses. I also sometimes think of what other people may think of me if they knew the thoughts I had and it makes it worse. How do I stop letting these thoughts control/trigger me and stop reacting or feeling some type of way about them.
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