All my intrusive thoughts started last year in april. They have been off and on. Ever sinceI got a girlfriend two weeks ago I have been having thoughts not about HOCD but ROCD and I have thoughts like you don’t like her or your not excited to see hers but whenever I see her she makes me forget all thoughts and she makes me happy when I’m with her. And I don’t wanna leave her ever but these thoughts are just so real it makes me think. I love this girl a lot but I hate these thoughts and it’s ruining my relationship. Is it just the thoughts talking or do I actually not like her?

Thank you 🙏

It’s just I wanan stay with her but soemtimes I think about if it’s ROCD or if it’s rlly me saying I don’t like her. When I’m with her I don’t think about any of that and she still get me horny and stuff too.

@Anonymous its the same for me i always feel like that too but when i call him and spend time with him i feel so much better and the thoughts disappear. thats biggest sign that we do love them and these thoughts are just thoughts

When the girl you like makes you horny that definitely means you like her right ?

@Anonymous yeah 100%

@A7508 Ok thank you so much

@Anonymous your welcome im always here if you need any advice :)

@A7508 Sorry, one more question 😂... how do you deal with the thoughts ? Like do you just tell yourself you like the person?

@Anonymous how i deal with it. i always ask myself can i really live without them? are they making me happier? can anyone make me feel the same way they do? and by answering thoes questions you will know if you love them or not

@A7508 What if you ask that but your thoughts get in the way of that and say they don’t? Soemtiems I feel like if I break up with her I’ll feel so bad if I do so I hold back on it.

@Anonymous and i just tell my self that one day me and him are going to get married and live together and travel the world. when i ever i question my love for him i always think about the future try it and let me know if it works

@Anonymous When ever you think about it call her facetime her dont try to think about the thought and ask ur self why ur thinking that way it will only make it worse

@Anonymous thr best thing that worked very well for me is facetiming and making memories with them and thinking about the future and how happy we will be together

@Anonymous and when ever these thoughts pop up i always try to fight them i literally say this out loud “he is my soulmate of course i love him i can’t imagine my life without him” try to make ur self believe that you love them and you are happy and live in that moment

@🖤 Thank you so much. This will help a lot

@Anonymous my ROCD turned into existential OCD i’ve been struggling with it all alone since december 2020 im scared to tell my boyfriend and my best friend about it. i haven’t been diagnosed yet but i have all the symptoms. i’ve never felt so weak and scared in a really long time. sorry im telling you this but i needed to get it of my chest. i tried to tell my mom about it she was really supportive but i felt like she didn’t take it seriously..

@Anonymous im glad that i could help you im here anytime you need me

@🖤 My journey began in April 2020 when I had HOCD and now since I have a girlfriend now it’s ROCD.

@Anonymous OCD is so hard i dont want to go to a therapist or take medication for it i just wanr to be normal🥺

@🖤 Same. I think a therapist or ERP is inevitable for me.

@Anonymous in 2019 i had nothing i was completely normal i was a girl with so much energy and always smiling loved her friends and her family. now i dont even talk to anyone i miss the old me so much

@Anonymous my boyfriend deserve a happy gir not me

@🖤 My girl deserves someone happy haha. We will get thru this.

I’m sorry... I broke up with her but now I don’t even know if I’m sad mad or happy. What does that mean?? I said that let’s take a break and she said ok. I feel bad but I don’t know if I’m relieved or not

@Anonymous Its ur ROCD trust me thats why you dont feel anything..

@Anonymous why didnt you use my advice before breaking up with her?

@🖤 I tried. But it was ROCD plus peer pressured from my friends but I’m planning to get back with her