7710 ❤️
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jemcu812jemcu812
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- 4y
Make loving gestures, like sitting close, by him a card for fun, and mail it to him, take him on a date, do the things , you'd wish he do for you, not only is it fun, ita rewarding, even if you don't get anything in return. Feelings are just that... feelings. Like a hang nail. Some days it's there and someday it's gone. , relationships are a roller coaster, no one loves the same way everyday , every minute of every year. You'll be fine. Try to smile and say .. Just Kidding... then that breaks the ice. Good luck
charissepisces2021charissepisc...
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- 4y
I'm so sorry... its just rocd. It makes you believe things that aren't true. Just try to explain that to him
whatadooowhatadooo
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I would take a moment to tell him that you didn't actually mean that and that you had a relapse in your ocd and that you are really sorry that was something you said. Don't do/say this to him again.
jemcu812jemcu812
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It is so hard. Cause ya know deep down you love him, but its like how does this happen... its so confusing
7710 ❤️7710 ❤️
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- 4y
My partner understands why I am going through this. Since I’ve been going through this for 9 years out of 10 1/2 years of our relationship. But it’s bad this time. I cried to my friend a lot and talked to her for an hour. I feel like I don’t deserve my partner anymore.. 😞 I have a good partner. He’s been beyond patient and loving. I told him I still love him. I cried the whole time I told him that… I am gonna join the BetterHelp app. I am worried my partner won’t trust me anymore… i told myself things over and over again and I started to believe it. Been on Reddit too much looking if someone is going through the exact same thing as I am.
7710 ❤️7710 ❤️
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I am scared he’s gonna break up with me now… 😞
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