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- 7710 ā¤ļø
- Date posted
- 3y ago
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- jemcu812jemcu812
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Make loving gestures, like sitting close, by him a card for fun, and mail it to him, take him on a date, do the things , you'd wish he do for you, not only is it fun, ita rewarding, even if you don't get anything in return. Feelings are just that... feelings. Like a hang nail. Some days it's there and someday it's gone. , relationships are a roller coaster, no one loves the same way everyday , every minute of every year. You'll be fine. Try to smile and say .. Just Kidding... then that breaks the ice. Good luck
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- charissepisces2021charissepisc...
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- 3y ago
I'm so sorry... its just rocd. It makes you believe things that aren't true. Just try to explain that to him
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- whatadooowhatadooo
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- 3y ago
I would take a moment to tell him that you didn't actually mean that and that you had a relapse in your ocd and that you are really sorry that was something you said. Don't do/say this to him again.
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- jemcu812jemcu812
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- 3y ago
It is so hard. Cause ya know deep down you love him, but its like how does this happen... its so confusing
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- 7710 ā¤ļø7710 ā¤ļø
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- 3y ago
My partner understands why I am going through this. Since Iāve been going through this for 9 years out of 10 1/2 years of our relationship. But itās bad this time. I cried to my friend a lot and talked to her for an hour. I feel like I donāt deserve my partner anymore.. š I have a good partner. Heās been beyond patient and loving. I told him I still love him. I cried the whole time I told him thatā¦ I am gonna join the BetterHelp app. I am worried my partner wonāt trust me anymoreā¦ i told myself things over and over again and I started to believe it. Been on Reddit too much looking if someone is going through the exact same thing as I am.
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- 7710 ā¤ļø7710 ā¤ļø
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- 3y ago
I am scared heās gonna break up with me nowā¦ š
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- 7710 ā¤ļø
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I hate hearing love is a choiceā¦ when I constantly feel nothing for himā¦ it hurtsā¦ when I am loving him itās like I am faking it and leading him onā¦ I avoid sex completely bc of itā¦ I want to love him like before. I want to cuddle and hold him tightlyā¦ itās everyday nowā¦ itās like if I talk to him about this itās like I am gonna break up with himā¦ I just want to love him peacefully again. Iāve had mild ROCD for years and NEVER did it feel like thisā¦ Itās like I gave into and just want to give up but I know I donāt want to. I know if I leave I will wanna be with him again. Itās like my brain has flatlined when it comes to himā¦
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- 7710 ā¤ļø
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- 2y ago
I really need someone to talk toā¦ just to ventā¦ if not.. i just need get this out and everything can ignore if they want.ā¦ I donāt know what to doā¦ I know Iāve been severely obsessing for 2 year about if I truly love my partner or not for 2 yearsā¦ I am severely saddened about how I feel right nowā¦. Before I knew I wanted to love him and stay.. it felt genuine like I was really mentally sickā¦ but nowā¦ my partner looks like a stranger to me, I get annoyed at him easily even if heās just sitting stillā¦ itās like heās a different person to me and I hate itā¦ I wanted so badly for me to know if I love him or notā¦ and itās like our time together never happenedā¦ I donāt cuddle talk or do much of anything anymore with him and it bothers meā¦ I feel no emotional connection with himā¦ maybe his flaws are too much for meā¦ š¢š¢ I donāt knowā¦. I want to love him again like before but I completely feel like Iām lying to him and myselfā¦ I donāt wanna end my relationship I really donāt want toā¦ I do t know how badly ROCD can get butā¦ this is the worst Iāve ever hadā¦ my relationship is gonna dieā¦ š¢ Iām sitting here quietly crying while he is asleepā¦.
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- 7710 ā¤ļø
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- 2y ago
Itās overā¦ I lost..
I donāt think I have ROCD anymore.. I believe I have fallen out of love with my partnerā¦ š I still do compulsions and try to test myself but it doesnāt work anymore. I think about my happy moments and cry bc I want that to be the true meā¦ I am just at this point convinced I donāt love him the same way anymore.. that ROCD just tricked meā¦ I donāt feel numb but I am unhappy.. I cry randomly but not as much. I justā¦ believe in am with him to avoid hurting him.. Iām just worried I donāt wanna admit it.. š Can ROCD do this? Or can a relationship be saved even if I fell out of love!? I just know I am mentally exhausted. I even wanted to say I love you to him but didnāt bc of how bad this isā¦ felt that I had no rightā¦
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