Ok y’all i need help with something. Its related to racism and clothing. I saw this incredibly cute online store but i didn’t see much representation on it so i googled to see if it was racist but instead found that there was a controversy with this one designer who had a launch on their site. Online people were signing a petition that said white boutique (which is also why i feared it was racist) no to Sarah’s day. Sarahs day is the person being racist and homophobic and sending hate. I feel dumb for asking but should i not even shop at this store because of this person? Or is that extreme and should i just not purchase anything from that designers line? There are other stores out there but i don’t want to do something that my potentially strengthen my Ocd. Please help.

I know but im not sure how to handle this. Which is why im posting on here to get some help from the community. Not reassurance seeking but potentially helping bad people or potentially strengthening my ocd idk

@Coul.C You’re making it bigger than it is. You either buy from then or don’t. It’s your choice and yours alone.

Thanks Ben. I wasn’t sure if this was an ocd thing or a principles thing but i think it is a principles thing. There are thousands of other stores out there and i dont think not buying from this one is going to be that big of a deal. I messaged my therapist about it as well so we will see if this is the right path, sometimes she can be vague. I’ve had this concern with music as well though. Or art. If the artist or musician is messed up we shouldn’t listen to their music or watch their art anymore right? This is something i had discussed with someone important to me as well.

@Coul.C It's her job to be vague. Ultimately you have to figure something like this out for yourself and it sounds like you've done that 🙂.