Coul.C
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Ben84Ben84
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If you massaged her in the middle of the night and she responded at all during that time, that's amazing, not slow. I get where you're coming from because I struggle with this too, but what is she supposed to say that's going to make the difference clear enough?
pai 😽pai 😽
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i said the same thing lol 😭 twins 👯♀️
Ben84Ben84
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@boo 😽 I just realized I typed "massaged" instead of "messaged". Dagnabbit, that totally changes the meaning 🤣!
pai 😽pai 😽
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@Ben84 LMAOOOOOO
pai 😽pai 😽
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@Ben84 LOL THATS SO FUNNY
Coul.CCoul.C
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Also 3 am to 3:45 pm lol
Ben84Ben84
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Case in point, I'm struggling a bit with the ethics of buying used CDs. It shouldn't be a problem, but it's not unlikely that the seller has ripped the CD before selling. So would I be contributing to a crime? It's a decision I'm ultimately going to have to make for myself.
Coul.CCoul.C
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Yeah decisions like these urk me. Have you decided yet?
Ben84Ben84
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@Coul.C For now I'm buying new CDs. But could change my mind. Either way, in the words of Jackson Browne, "Don't let the uncertainty turn you around" 🙂.
pai 😽pai 😽
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hi! if u texted her in the middle of the night when she could be sleeping and she responded only 45 mins later that’s pretty good! cuz 3 am is the middle of the night most people are sleeping. you have to understand therapists are people too who live lives and do normal things. to me the fact she even responded at all is great! i don’t think u can expect her to respond immediately.
Coul.CCoul.C
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3 am to 3:45 pm I wouldn’t expect her to message me at 3 in the morning lol
pai 😽pai 😽
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@Coul.C ohhh ok sorry 😭
Coul.CCoul.C
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Guys i realize that im not expecting her to message me back exactly then or in the morning but basically i texted her pretty early on and she replied like around 3 over the weekend she got married and didn’t respond at all
Coul.CCoul.C
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I understand she got married and am trying to be patient but we moved to twice a month and in between sometimes these sessions are what keep me not overwhelmed
Coul.CCoul.C
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Thats 3 am to 3:45 pm btw!!! Sorry i could see why that would be confusing lol
Ben84Ben84
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That makes more sense 🙂. Even so, it's within the agreed 24 hrs. Also, I don't think they're required to respond during the weekend. I remember how difficult it was at times and how much I relied on others to respond to my problems. Having said that, people aren't going to be able to always live up to those expectations. And when they don't, you can still survive 🙂.
pai 😽pai 😽
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ohhhh ok i was confused at first 😭
elizabethcrowder3gmailelizabethcro...
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Did they appoint you an peer advocate?
Coul.CCoul.C
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@elizabethcrowder3gmail Um they might have in the beginning im not sure
elizabethcrowder3gmailelizabethcro...
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@Coul.C They normally do, I would go back and look into it and reach out to them also. They have been through what we've been through and they are there for support.
Coul.CCoul.C
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@elizabethcrowder3gmail Thank you how do you think the best way is to reach out to them?
elizabethcrowder3gmailelizabethcro...
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@Coul.C Well they sent me all my contact links through text or email, if you have access to any of those depending on how long ago you reached out if not you may be able to reach out through here somehow.
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