can someone help me plz this boy at my schools mum just told me that he likes me. and she asked me if he asked me out would i say yes. and in that moment i said yes. and now i’m panicking. i feel like i’ve lied and i’ve never had a bf so i’m freaking out. i’m not as young as this all sounds haha. i’m 15 abs yes. i’ve never had a bf

i’m so scared. i feel pressure on my chest. i haven’t literally said “yes. i’ll go out with you” i told his mum that i would say yes. and now i feel like i’m lying to them and myself

@immagiveup35 hey hon if u wanna talk my insta is izabellalee

How you overcome this

@Hocd_sufferer well, i heard the voice inside me, i accepted that it was there but i didnt LISTEN to it, like oh ok, am i assexual? or im just young and don’t understand s3x, and started to thing (but thats a compulsion) wait no u dont have control, i have dreams, i have curiosity. is something i work on therapy :)

well, try go out with him. remember u have ocd but u are not it, if it feels wrong for u being attracted to girls than u already know u are not gay. ppl who are born like that (im bi but THATS HAVE NOTHIBG TO DO WITH OCD I ALWAYS KNEW AND NEVER FELT ANXIOUS ABT) always knew and accepted, i actually found it relief, and if ur not feeling it, girl thats not for u. go out! have fun and dont let ocd take ur fun away, hes a bully

@izaaa_l i said yes. im happy as well as panicking. no one knows that i suffer possibly with this theme and i keep it all in. he told me that he’s never had a gf too which made me feel better. sorry for all this childish stuff. it’s something that my thoughts are latching onto

@immagiveup35 girl, this is not childish, this is ocd and it is stressful!! sometimes my theme is so dumb that i feel ashamed to tell ppl abt it, but hey its ok! im here for u🤍

@izaaa_l thank you. i really appreciate it. he’s my first bf. i haven’t felt attraction in ages but he’s given me a few butterflies by how much of a gentleman he is. everyone or at least most on here and reddit are telling me to tell him about it or break up with him. i don’t want to do either. i kinda wanna give it a go but i’m so nervous and i feel like i’m lying to him. like when i tel him he’s cute my brain goes “lies. your gay” and i hate the feeling after that. i really appreciate you understanding and it means more than words can say. you’ve stopped many panic attacks for me. i’m rlly nervous atm and al i rlly feel is guilt

@immagiveup35 thats so cute, i wish i had this, im so scared of relationship and insecurities that i dont give a go. im SO happy for u 🤍🤍 and pls remember if ur ocd voice tell u somethibg and u dont know if its real or not, remember that if u feel distress is ocd, u would know that u are gay and honestly u wouldnt feel distress!

@immagiveup35 omg girl i feel like we are friends lmao, being a teen with ocd is hard cuz everything is missunderstood with “oh its questioning” i have 15 almost 16 and its horrble but im glad i could help, and if u wanna talk im here

@izaaa_l it means the world to know someone the same age. i’m 15. it started at 14 and i’m constantly saying “your at the age of knowing you sure ? “ and i’m constantly looking for signs in my childhood and i believe a few and it’s eating at me

@izaaa_l and thank you sm. he is lovely