Ihateocd83
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Hocd_suffererHocd_sufferer
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Don't type this so much
Hi200Hi200
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I’ve noticed you’ve said this a lot in the last couple of days. You are ruminating and typing this and asking this is a compulsion. There is no such thing as a gay face but there is a thing called a rude and mindless person. The girl who said you have “gay face” is rude and her opinion does not matter. There is no such thing as a gay face. Dispel this myth in your head. There is no such thing as a gay face. A face is a face. When we all die, we are just bones. How can you tell if someone is gay through their bones and flesh? You can’t. Now stop thinking about this situation and each time you think about this. Remind yourself that there is no such thing as a gay face. There are only faces.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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Thanks buddy I just feel so stuck 😞
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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You need to delete the app for a couple days, you’re posting way too much and this is a compulsion that’s making you much worse
Ben84Ben84
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Notice how you get hung up on a few negative things some random person tells you, but ignore all the times nobody said anything or said something positive.
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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You’re so bright, Ben
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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So what's that mean ?
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 Ask yourself why you're focused on this random girl's comment. What if someone close to you said you didn't have a gay face?
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 Yeah that's a good point 👍
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 Do you suffer from hocd ?
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 I had it a bit when I was younger.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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I do worry like what if I'm gay and I just can't handle it and I will live in this misery forever 😔
Ben84Ben84
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Besides this app, what resources do you use? Therapy, books, videos, etc.?
AnonymousAnonymous
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Apparently you can have hOcd and realise it is true though??
Ben84Ben84
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Sure. It's all a part of the uncertainty 🙂.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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What do you mean ?
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Ihateocd83 I mean that you can have HOcD and fear been gay and realise you are Gay.. ocd doesn’t mean you’re not the thing you fear or this is how it was explained to me
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Anonymous That's really triggering 😔
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Anonymous My head hurts so much with all this crap going on inside it
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Ihateocd83 Yes and I am sorry but this is what my therapist said
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Anonymous Sorry 😞 I don’t mean harm
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Anonymous It just sucks .... how can my head be full of this crap all day. I feel like I'm missing out so much with my boys 😔
nGfloatnGfloat
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Don’t worry about that man. Trust me, none of that means anything. I know the thoughts suck and you say stuff in your head. I do to. Just keep on pushing forward!
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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I feel worse than ever
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 What's changed?
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 I'm just miserable. And it's making me really bad tempered and I've always been really laid back. My head hurts and it's a mess 😔
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 What other OCD resources do you use besides this app?
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 I've had therapy which helped a bit. I think the main thing with me is that I don't believe it is ocd. I can hardly find women attractive anymore I used to be crazy about women like a dog on heat. But it's slowly got worse and all I have is men in my head 😔
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 I don't know your exact situation since I can't get inside your head, but could part of the problem be you're comparing your past feelings for women to today? We're about the same age. While I still feel attraction, it's not the same as it was.
Ben84Ben84
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@Ben84 Also, find resources related to OCD. Chrissie Hodges on You Tube, The OCD Stories podcast, books that others recommend, etc.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 Oh really I'm 38. Yeah maybe but it feels as though I have some disgust towards them it's bizarre it's not all the time tho. And also towards there genitals
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 Now I'm worried because you haven't messaged back 😔
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 Perhaps try therapy again. Regardless of whether that's an option for you, look into other OCD resources 🙂.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 I spent so much money on it and can't Offord anymore. I don't see people with the same thoughts I have 😔
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 Then look into other resources. Podcasts, You Tube videos, and articles don't really cost you anything extra. Also, try the live seminars they have on here throughout the week.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Ben84 OK thanks buddy. I just need this to settle so I can start living my life again
Ben84Ben84
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@Ihateocd83 Good luck 🙂!
AnonymousAnonymous
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I am only saying what my therapist on here said that it can be true what people are feeling that’s all.
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