Charlie
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CharlieCharlie
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Thanks, recently a girl I liked started talking me and weve gone on two dates but now I'm freaking out,my head is telling me I don't like her I only like her as a friend and when my parents ask about her I feel as if I'm lying
CharlieCharlie
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my friend has his girlfriend as his screensaver my brain went you'd never do that
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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When did you first meet? How did the dates go? The only reason I ask this, is because at the beginning of getting to know eachother you are going to have mixed feelings. Also if you are struggling with a nervous disorder, your emotions might fluctuate, and you might take that as a signal of not liking the girl, when maybe your body is dealing with something more internal. Also just because someone put a picture of his girl friend as his screen saver doesn't mean thats what love means. People show love or interest in many different ways. I have never had a picture of my late partners as my screen saver.
CharlieCharlie
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She's very funny and full of life and has the greatest laugh and stories and she's a good listener
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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How long have you known her? Do you think she would be the type of person to understand ocd? X
CharlieCharlie
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She was in my art class for two years and this year she was in my Transition year class and sat infront of me and I started liking her in December
CharlieCharlie
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she is understanding but I feel like if I told her about it she might be freaked out or something
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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Thats lovley! Im glad you both share the same interests. When you started liking her in December, what made you realise you liked her? What was the pinnacle moment when you thought 'oo I like her' did you start feeling happy around her? Or did you want to spend more time with her? Thats totally understandable, it might be worth just touching on the subject first, just maybe say like I struggle with something called ocd. And then over time there might be moments where the conversation may flow. I know it sounds a little cringy, but say your doing an art project you could do one for OCD, and if she asks you could just raise the subject saying this is what I have.. and she could try and understand through what you've drawn, instead of trying to explain it. Maybe, just a quick thought 😊
CharlieCharlie
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She'd start to talk in class and everyone would listen and she was just full of energy and laughing and then I was like I like her
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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She sounds like a girl with a very bubbly and kind personality. Try not to pay too much attention to how you feel at one present moment, because your emotions may fluctuate for many reasons. There may be reasons you feel a little differently towards someone your getting to know, because theres always going to moments, or reasons your perception, feelings and mind set changes. I doesnt mean that's your final feeling towards her, as it could be what your going through at that present time. Can I ask, do you feel worried or a little scared when relationships start turning a little more serious? X
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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Sorry to hear, if you'd like to talk, im more than happy to listen 🌻 keep safe x
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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Don't worry about making a decision right now, go with the flow, get to know her, allow yourself to feel how you feel, because its totally normal to have ups and downs whens getting to know each other.
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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Could you tell me about what she's like? Is she kind? Is she a good listener? Those sorts of things x
LittleLunaLittleLuna
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She sounds lovley
CharlieCharlie
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I have had thoughts about it getting more serious like my friend told me he's been with his girlfriend for four months and I thought woah thats a long time but now that dosent really bother me, there's points where I think this girl is so funny and amazing and other times where I'm worrying I don't actually like her
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