Ocd Warrior
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chellybeanzchellybeanz
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There is never a rush for something like this. I understand that it seems pressing, especially when peer pressure is a factor (if it is one), but sexuality is a spectrum and you have so much time to learn about yourself and your sexuality over time. Wherever you are on the spectrum is valid and beautiful! I would say, if you don’t feel ready, don’t. You have autonomy over your life and freedom, and the ability to accept and learn about your sexuality over time.
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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Don’t rush this
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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And normally the first couple of times when you don’t know what you’re doing suck so this would be poor judgement
Ocd Warrior Ocd Warrior
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@Justmesadly Ok 😢, if the thoughts aren’t true tho, then how come I orgasm faster to my intrusive thoughts, than my actual thoughts about women, it was so unwanted, but it happened so quick
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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@dylen I don’t know babe. I don’t know who you like or what you like , only you do. Free yourself from ocd so you can be free to be who you are
Ocd Warrior Ocd Warrior
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@Justmesadly I feel like I love women and only desire them but my brain is killing me, so is the unwanted things like the unwanted orgasms
WhatabtmeWhatabtme
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The comment you saw sounds like some good old internet bs to me. No one gets to decide how you understand your sexuality but you. And no one gets to decide when you're ready to have sex but you.
AnonymousAnonymous
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If the girl is hot and around your age then go for it if not then having sex to prove your sexuality as opposed to having sex because you just want to have sex and want to have it with a girl will just be a compulsion.
Ocd Warrior Ocd Warrior
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Ok bro thank you very much brother, how’s recovery?
ocdmanocdman
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Man I’m in the exact opposite boat feel a urgent need to loose it even though I’m young feel like no girl will ever want me when I beat this hocd
Ocd Warrior Ocd Warrior
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I have been there man, I’m 14 and for the longest time thought I wanted to lose it but I have a fear of God punishing me for doing it, when I had a gf the hocd went away a lot, and get this, my libido was back. We were gonna have sex when i went to her house, she was gonna buy condoms and all, but my fear of being punished by God made me scared, so before I even was gonna go to her house we broke up so I didn’t even get to lose it, so basically I want to lose my virginity like you but I have a fear to, and I think it is also ocd aswell, so I’m hocd and whatever this type of ocd is lol, I was hella homophobic before hocd but now I’m not anymore, I regret how I acted back then
Ocd Warrior Ocd Warrior
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@dylen But I’m lowkey scarred that me being homophobic before this means I will turn gay as punishment, either tho I try not to be homophobic anymore
Nik07Nik07
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Dude whoever told you that is so stupid. Every human being know what they like from a young age. 80% of gay people already know that something doesn't click since the age of 10. I also didn't like the first time with a woman. The thing is if you to do with that mindset yoir anxiety will ruin the experience and youll only become worse.
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