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- SumSum
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- 5y ago
It was hard for me to describe how my OCD affects my life to my family as well over the years. You’re not alone in the struggle. People who don’t have mental illnesses can’t imagine what it’s like to have one, they just can’t. It will get better though. Maybe have a parent accompany you to therapy so your therapist can inform them a little. I thought of doing that in the past. It’s not their fault that they don’t understand just as it isn’t your fault that you feel the way you do... but with compassion and empathy it can be described to them. I hope it works out and stay strong. Their love for you will be bigger than their lack of understanding.
did i write this :( sorry you’re going thru this
That must be so difficult it’s the same for me and my dad. Luckily for me I have a very supportive mum. Have you tired to talk to your parents? If you have and they are still like this then I think your best option is to find yourself some support from a therapist or counsellor and maybe try and get them to talk and emphasis the importance of you situation to your parents
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I’m sorry:( Ik exactly what that’s like. I’ve kinda come to accept that they can love me through it but they can’t walk me through it. I don’t feel comfortable yet but I have heard of someone saying aloud their intrusive thoughts as they come in to show just how frequent and anxiety inducing they can be. Or maybe you could have you Mom or Dad just go about heir business while you let your OCD narrate (aloud). Even if they can’t grasp the anxiety part, I’d guess they’d figure out the frustration part as they flip a light switch 5 times, wash their hands for half an hour, etc.
No one understands my OCD in my family. No one knows any of my themes and I just need someone to be able to talk to. I just want to cry and be in my dark room forever.
My parents don't understand my OCD and they keep getting angry at me and guilt tripping me saying that I'm hurting everyone else but I literally can't help it and I really need some advice on how to explain what I'm going through
sometimes when I read all these posts I just start crying 😭😭 I hate that we are all suffering like this… ocd is not for the weak and its so frustrating 😭 Im really tired honestly… my ocd has its good and bad days but im just exhausted by all of it. I cant enjoy simple things because my ocd has to overcomplicate every little thing and create these “signs” as to what I am and what I am not. Ive had ocd for over a year now im a just upset 😭😭😭 I dont want to live like this forever… I have a lot of people who say, “you can talk to me if you want” and its really sweet 💓 but I dont think anyone can understand what I am feeling because even I cant… I dont know what im doing- how im feeling- who I am- or even what my values are 😭 ocd just makes me question everything. I am a 14 year old girl 😭😭😭 how am I supposed to know what to do? Ive talked mom about my ocd a few times and she tries to help but she doesn’t even understand 1/5th of what I go through daily. I appreciate her caring even if its a little but I just want some help 😭😭 I am a bit scared of therapy though. But im willing to try but im not sure if my mom will let me… Ocd just makes me feel so unlovable. I hate it.
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