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That's something i used to do and somewhat do. Before I'd take some "are you gay test" and one of the questions were "do you look at the guy or the girl first in a relationship" and since then I've been trying to look at the girls in a relationship even tho I have a whole girlfriend. It's honestly irritating and I know how you feel
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Yes exactly, I never did this stuff before until you see all “signs you’re gay” “if you do this you’re gay” stuff on tiktok and it’s like my mind picks up on it and tries testing it. I have a boyfriend too and it’s really annoying, thanks for letting me know I’m not alone
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@PinkLotus See so your completely fine it's a habit that i promise will die down eventually
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Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
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I keep seeing random people that are "more" attractive than my gf and it just makes me question everything. I will then go through photos of my gf to validate my relationship. This just sucks. Maybe I am with the wrong person?
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So another obsession just popped up and it’s how during school I had a class with this one girl and I would always notice her. Like whenever I looked around my eyes would always go to her. And right now I’m just scared and feel like a terrible boyfriend bc even when something funny happened I would look around but my eyes would find my way to her. Now I feel like I just wanted her to notice me and it feels weird
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