- Username
- Ihateocd83
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Bro you post too much that on this app this is not a solution you have overcome hocd I tell you way take your attention from hocd thoughts back
Okay man, learn how to type first off, I was just tryna help but whatever brotha đĽ´
@The brain is NOT U Bro I don't know English that much because I'm not native could you write in my language đ
@HOCD SUFFER Sorry
@The brain is NOT U Bro btw I know 4-5 language I live in india I know marathi hindi Punjabi Tamil
Lmao who cares what peiole say donât let that bother you, I have hocd too and have thoughts of being gay and what if u kiss this guy and itâs super annoying, I hate having these thoughts and I try everyday on working to not resist, satan is going to try to plant thoughts in your brain and make you think that you want and need this but in reality you donât, being gay is a choice not just something that you wake up to one day, I know deep down that I rlly like girls and want to have a beautiful wife, itâs really what your morals are, maybe you are gay but for me at least I know I am not I was born a straight man and will die one as god made me, you know these thoughts and temptations happen but just cuz u have thoughts doesnât mean you gotta buy into them, just start labeling them as intrusive thoughts, I still donât fully understand why I have these thoughts it ducks but I have faith the lord will help me overcome this, I will pray for ya brotha, overall tho donât let peopleâs words bring you down , you r ur own self and only you know what you want
I never had 1 gay thought before the age of 22 and this hasn't bothered me as much as last August it got really bad I'm 38 now đ
@ihateocd83 hi! I know how upsetting that remark mustâve been. I frequently tell myself I look gay all the time and then adjust the way Iâm standing in the mirror as if that makes any type of difference. You canât âlook gayâ. Perhaps there are certain similarities in how gay people dress/act/present themselves, but this is not a certainty. You can be whoever you want and dress any way you want without it pigeonholing yourself into a category! Words are upsetting. Words CAN hurt and they often do. All I ask is please do not listen to that other commenter. Itâs one of the most toxic and incorrect responses to your situation. This has nothing to do with morality or religion. I wish you luck đ
Yeah it's funny because I had been thinking the same thing. Like somehow I look gay ?
âď¸I spend some time on this forum called âemptyclosetsâ where gay people can come out and search for help. And it was a big, big mistake. When I searched for HOCD in this forum I found so much people there who donât believe that something like âHOCDâ exists and that our symptoms are the typical signs of denying. This hit me just so hard and triggered me so, so much. My biggest fear is that it isnât actually HOCD.
Hii. So this is kind of a weird thing but bear with me. I know when people come out, others will say "oh we've known" or like "I'm not surprised" and that's definitely an insensitive thing to say but I fear that my friends/peers talk about me and think I give off bi/lesbian energy but don't tell me. Like if my SOOCD isn't real and I came out one day, would people say that? I'm just afraid that my friends talk behind my back about me in that way and so I go the extra mile to avoid those LGBTQ+ stereotypes whatever that may be. Even stupid shit like having a nose piercing or clear phone case etc. My OCD clings onto that thought and so I'm always conscious in my head about not trying to give off that energy based off how I present myself and it's so exhausting like I wish I could just wear whatever without being like "oh I saw a tik tok one time that says this type of shirt is a gay thing" or whatever. I am not in any way homophobic as I'm an ally of the LGBTQ+ community but my OCD just drives me crazy and because of that I have this constant fear of being perceived as bi/lesbian. Sorry this was long and all over the place LMAO but if anyone can relate/ has advice it would be so appreciated because I honestly just feel so alone
You ever listen to a recording of yourself and think wow do I actually sound sort of girly (or manly if youâre a woman)? And maybe everyone thinks so but just doesnât want to tell me?? (Also I say the word âlikeâ a lot which rn feels like it could point to sounding effeminate, idk.) I know itâs super shallow but geez stuff like this gets to me sometimes
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