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Bro you post too much that on this app this is not a solution you have overcome hocd I tell you way take your attention from hocd thoughts back
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Okay man, learn how to type first off, I was just tryna help but whatever brotha š„“
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@The brain is NOT U Bro I don't know English that much because I'm not native could you write in my language š
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@HOCD SUFFER Sorry
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@The brain is NOT U Bro btw I know 4-5 language I live in india I know marathi hindi Punjabi Tamil
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Lmao who cares what peiole say donāt let that bother you, I have hocd too and have thoughts of being gay and what if u kiss this guy and itās super annoying, I hate having these thoughts and I try everyday on working to not resist, satan is going to try to plant thoughts in your brain and make you think that you want and need this but in reality you donāt, being gay is a choice not just something that you wake up to one day, I know deep down that I rlly like girls and want to have a beautiful wife, itās really what your morals are, maybe you are gay but for me at least I know I am not I was born a straight man and will die one as god made me, you know these thoughts and temptations happen but just cuz u have thoughts doesnāt mean you gotta buy into them, just start labeling them as intrusive thoughts, I still donāt fully understand why I have these thoughts it ducks but I have faith the lord will help me overcome this, I will pray for ya brotha, overall tho donāt let peopleās words bring you down , you r ur own self and only you know what you want
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I never had 1 gay thought before the age of 22 and this hasn't bothered me as much as last August it got really bad I'm 38 now š
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@ihateocd83 hi! I know how upsetting that remark mustāve been. I frequently tell myself I look gay all the time and then adjust the way Iām standing in the mirror as if that makes any type of difference. You canāt ālook gayā. Perhaps there are certain similarities in how gay people dress/act/present themselves, but this is not a certainty. You can be whoever you want and dress any way you want without it pigeonholing yourself into a category! Words are upsetting. Words CAN hurt and they often do. All I ask is please do not listen to that other commenter. Itās one of the most toxic and incorrect responses to your situation. This has nothing to do with morality or religion. I wish you luck š
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Yeah it's funny because I had been thinking the same thing. Like somehow I look gay ?
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It feels like Iām lying to myself constantly and everyone. There feels like there is a weight on my heart from the moment I wake up till I go to sleep. I donāt want to be gay. Idk why it doesnāt register. Now everyone I see I have to see if Iām attracted to them. I see good looking men and I feel like Iām lying to myself that they are good looking, I see women and I see if im attracted to them. I look at everyone and I feel jealous. I want my fucking life back. But now my OCD (if this is even OCD) is telling me I was never happy and I was always suppressing my feelings of being gay. Why is this happening? Can OCD do this? I canāt enjoy anything ever.
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I cant afford therapy which is why iām not diagnosed with ocd. The first time i had heard what ocd was truly abt was 6 years ago when i overthinking my sexual identity and it fit. Additionally, i struggle with debilitating health anxiety and when i was in a rlt i was extremely anxious that i might not love my partner. This is the third year i experience distress around my sexuality but this year it feels real. And it could also explain my rlt anxiety. Comphet is a concept that really scares me. I dont want to be with a girl. I would rather die than discover i was lesbian. I cant accept uncertainty cz i dont want to be homosexual. Chat GPT told me it wasnt ocd + the thoughts dont distress me anymore. I experience 3 intense weeks of anxiety prior to now. Maybe its internalized homophobia. Maybe its comphet. I do find women to be attractive but i dont wanna be with them. Maybe iām in denial. Idk anything anymore. Iām remembering times where i would find an actress attractive and try to shift my focus towards the man cz it would make me anxious. Iām not well at all.
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So Iāve talked to a couple of gay people and they all told me the same thing. They ALWAYS knew they liked guys and they have ever gotten aroused by a woman in their life. In fact they told me that they always found a womanās body disgusting. Looking back in my life Iāve been attracted to girls for as long as I can remember even before puberty. All my fantasies were about girls and I canāt remember a time where I felt the same for a guy (because it never happened). At the end I can still get aroused by women and you can clearly see how much stupid this obsession about being gay is. Gay people canāt get instinctively aroused by a woman and like it. Groinal responses and sensations donāt mean anything because they simply do not bring joy or a feeling of desire. Instead they bring panic. I once got a groinal when ātesting my reactionsā and I was sitting there crying like my life is over. Thatās not how genuine attraction works and no one has woken up one day feeling different and no one has been secretly gay and never noticed it and spent his whole life into women instead.
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