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Bro you post too much that on this app this is not a solution you have overcome hocd I tell you way take your attention from hocd thoughts back
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Okay man, learn how to type first off, I was just tryna help but whatever brotha š„“
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@The brain is NOT U Bro I don't know English that much because I'm not native could you write in my language š
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@HOCD SUFFER Sorry
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@The brain is NOT U Bro btw I know 4-5 language I live in india I know marathi hindi Punjabi Tamil
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Lmao who cares what peiole say donāt let that bother you, I have hocd too and have thoughts of being gay and what if u kiss this guy and itās super annoying, I hate having these thoughts and I try everyday on working to not resist, satan is going to try to plant thoughts in your brain and make you think that you want and need this but in reality you donāt, being gay is a choice not just something that you wake up to one day, I know deep down that I rlly like girls and want to have a beautiful wife, itās really what your morals are, maybe you are gay but for me at least I know I am not I was born a straight man and will die one as god made me, you know these thoughts and temptations happen but just cuz u have thoughts doesnāt mean you gotta buy into them, just start labeling them as intrusive thoughts, I still donāt fully understand why I have these thoughts it ducks but I have faith the lord will help me overcome this, I will pray for ya brotha, overall tho donāt let peopleās words bring you down , you r ur own self and only you know what you want
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I never had 1 gay thought before the age of 22 and this hasn't bothered me as much as last August it got really bad I'm 38 now š
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@ihateocd83 hi! I know how upsetting that remark mustāve been. I frequently tell myself I look gay all the time and then adjust the way Iām standing in the mirror as if that makes any type of difference. You canāt ālook gayā. Perhaps there are certain similarities in how gay people dress/act/present themselves, but this is not a certainty. You can be whoever you want and dress any way you want without it pigeonholing yourself into a category! Words are upsetting. Words CAN hurt and they often do. All I ask is please do not listen to that other commenter. Itās one of the most toxic and incorrect responses to your situation. This has nothing to do with morality or religion. I wish you luck š
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Yeah it's funny because I had been thinking the same thing. Like somehow I look gay ?
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I had same Sex fantasies, sought that out in š½ before I knew what sexuality was, itās related to a specific fetish and I used to talk to strangers online including men and Iām scared now what all of this means, I have HOCD, POCD, all sorts of thoughts but I donāt know if itās my thoughts or my past which is reality. Why did I have those thoughts as a young boy? Why why why? Who am I? Do I even have OCD? What monster am I? I just want to end it all sometimes in all honesty. Not really but sure feels like it. Iām dying inside .
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So Iāve talked to a couple of gay people and they all told me the same thing. They ALWAYS knew they liked guys and they have ever gotten aroused by a woman in their life. In fact they told me that they always found a womanās body disgusting. Looking back in my life Iāve been attracted to girls for as long as I can remember even before puberty. All my fantasies were about girls and I canāt remember a time where I felt the same for a guy (because it never happened). At the end I can still get aroused by women and you can clearly see how much stupid this obsession about being gay is. Gay people canāt get instinctively aroused by a woman and like it. Groinal responses and sensations donāt mean anything because they simply do not bring joy or a feeling of desire. Instead they bring panic. I once got a groinal when ātesting my reactionsā and I was sitting there crying like my life is over. Thatās not how genuine attraction works and no one has woken up one day feeling different and no one has been secretly gay and never noticed it and spent his whole life into women instead.
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Iāve completely lost myself. I canāt focus on my studies, I canāt go to the gym. Dang it I canāt even be around my male friends normally anymore. I got no idea why or how this happened but the only thing I know for sure is that I never questioned my sexuality neither doubted it. I never cared in general. I just liked girls. I keep testing and keep testing and keep testing my arousal but no matter how many times I see but I donāt feel the same way for guys that I do with girls my mind will always try to make me believe that I am gay. Itās like itās forcing me into an identity I never asked for. But at the end of the day like my psychologist told me. Sexuality doesnāt change. So since I never felt anything for guys in my life itās ocd. Iāve been up and down for 5 months now and while the last week I was feeling way better. Monday now and Iām back to zero. I just want to go back when everything was normal. I canāt keep living with this.
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