hate_ocd.123
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- 4y
holleyholley
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- 4y
this happens to me every time i see a straight couple it’s like i can’t relate even though i’m dating a guy…
b13b13
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Omg I always worry about this. I see lots of cute videos of couples of tiktok and I’m like aw I want that but then when I try to imagine myself in the scenario it feels like I don’t like it. And I’m so scared that it might be comphet or something? And when I see similar tiktoks but with girls I don’t get the same sort of like desire? Like I can be like aw that’s a cute video or they’re a cute couple but I don’t feel anything inside myself. Ugh idk I wish someone would give me the answer
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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- 4y
See when i see tiktoks with girl couples i get anxiety, and same with guys. Thats why I deleted tik tok🤣
holleyholley
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- 4y
yes!!!! omg
b13b13
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- 4y
@hate_ocd.123 I go through periods of this. Like the other week, just the thought of going on tiktok made me feel sick in my stomach cos I knew I’d see both straight and gay couples. I’ve had an okay few days though and so that’s why I’m feeling what I just posted hahaha.
b13b13
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@holley Wait sorry are you saying yes to me or hate_ocd.123?
b13b13
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- 4y
@b13 And I just saw a tiktok of a girl asking others to share their experiences with comphet and I read through some and I got anxious and now idk if I was anxious because I ‘related’ or just because the concept scares me. I don’t know how to figure it out :(
holleyholley
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- 4y
@b13 the whole seeing couples and not relating that’s what i struggle with on the daily!
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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- 4y
@b13 Just to lyk with comphet, i know many straight girls that have told me things that in my head goes “that’s comphet” Practically if you’re not boy crazy, you’re a lesbian is what i get from comphet
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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- 4y
@hate_ocd.123 I know many straight girls who relate to comphet, but ofc i also then get scared that me thinking this is an excuse and that im a lesbian with internalized homophobia and just homophobic:(
b13b13
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@hate_ocd.123 I do that too! If I try and respond with any other explanations I worry that I’m trying to deny my ‘true self’ or something.
b13b13
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- 4y
@holley It’s so scary! Like I recently hearted a few tiktoks because I thought they were cute videos and I’d ‘like that someday’ (cheesy) but I have absolutely zero romantic experience and I’m absolutely terrified that when it comes to it, I won’t like and that will be the nail in the coffin and the proof I need to ‘finally accept’. So I kind of avoid ever pursuing it, which then makes me feel like I’m in denial and avoiding the ‘truth’. It’s so confusing.
holleyholley
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- 4y
@hate_ocd.123 exactly i hate that and think it’s so stupid that’s why i haven’t read it in about a year.
missblueskymissbluesky
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@hate_ocd.123 Omg so sometimes when you’re talking to your straight girl friends you think “that’s comphet”
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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- 4y
@missbluesky Yeah haha, like one of my friends came back from her date crying even though it was a good date. They didnt do much she just didn’t like him, and apparently that’s “comphet” I never say that though, plus this girl has ocd as well And then just other things some of my friends have said
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 4y
this still happens to me and i’m in a relationship. it’s hard to know exactly what you want whe you have ocd, so the easiest thing to do is to just go along with whatever your distressing thought says. i also try to keep myself out of my head by either reading, writing, or talking to people and it seems to do the trick
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