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From what I've read, its psuedo science bs. Nothing physically about you will indicate sexuality
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Nowadays people say a lot of bullshit. Stick to the facts we know are true. I see so many things online that trigger me but when i take a big stepback i see how stupid it was
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I seen this on tiktok I cried for days about it and was so stressed but I really don’t see how it can relate?? If you ever need to chat I’m always here as we are going through the same thing x
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Same here omg! Like I know it doesnt make sense bc my mom’s hands are the same so I probably got it from her. But the way they talk about it as if its some sort of hard evidence?? That’s so sweet, let me know if you ever need to chat too :)
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@ocdh8er I know!! 💓💓💓💓
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For me, it differs depending on what angle I’m looking at my hand from, like looking at the back of my hand, my ring finger is longer, and looking at my palm, my index finger is longer - so who knows. It’s completely unscientific though. I have a friend who is fully lesbian, and she posted that tik tok on her story and showed her fingers, and her index finger is WAY longer than her ring finger, so she was like, ‘guess I’m straight then :)’ - so it’s really not worth ruminating about.
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Do you have instagram? If you don’t want to share I understand x
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@Lily111 (Apologies for the late reply) I’m a little scared to put my @ here, but I will definitely follow you back if you put yours here!
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I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
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I need too know that I'm not insane, really. I am 16 and for the past two weeks, this has been completely ruining my health and happiness. I only recently came out as a lesbian like 3 months ago after a lot of confusion about my attraction since I used to think I liked men. At first, I felt so sure that I liked women, but lately, I've been having these unwanted thoughts about the possibility of liking men. I never used to feel this way, but now, every time I look at a man, my brain obsessively fixates on it. It forces me to imagine kissing him, loving him, things I don’t want, and then tries to convince me that I do. It’s painful. The thought of this fills me with fear and anxiety, leading to panic attacks and breakdowns. I don’t want these thoughts. I hate them with every fiber of my being, but I’m terrified that one day I’ll act on them and somehow like it. I used to think I liked men, but back then, I was in a very unhealthy space in a time of escapism and something deeply parasocial. I’ve only ever liked the attention and validation a man could give me, but these experiences are somehow treated as further proof that I’m "bisexual." I’ve never been in a real relationship with anyone, which makes my brain constantly challenge me—telling me, “You don’t even know what love feels like.” It won’t shut up. It keeps obsessively trying to make me prove that I’m a lesbian, testing my reactions and questioning my certainty. Is this normal?
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