A lot of SOOCD cases start with porn use. Started with mine and so many other people. Doesn’t even have to be gay or lesbian porn, some people watched straight and imagined themselves as the opposite sex for a second and boom that’s all it takes. Porn Addiction can escalate you into thinking things and causing SOOCD or any of the other sexual OCD subtypes.
mine didn’t start from porn but from a thought but it just seems like a cop out like i’m using porn as an excuse for my fantasies instead of being like “oh yeah it’s because i’m bisexual” but truthfully i never had these until i began watching lesbian porn
@holley Porn can definitely cause people to get fantasies. But there’s no way to tell, fantasies don’t make your sexuality though. I can suggest stopping if you already haven’t for like a month of all porn use and see if the fantasy is still strong or present at all.
@NihonWarrior516 i have. the fantasy is still there. what do i do?
Are you totally sure it’s a fantasy? What happens that causes you to think about it and how long have you had it?
i’ve had it since porn. and yes it’s a fantasy.
@holley Well if it’s OCD then you should do common practices to help recover from OCD, I’m sure you already know that though. A fantasy is a fantasy in the end of the day, a lot of people have some that are physically impossible and yet they remain, I guess it’s up to the person on whether or not it’s something worth chasing after. But yeah you say it’s a fantasy and that you never had the fantasy before porn so it only makes sense that that’s how it came about.