Ihateocd83
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Jbm421Jbm421
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I think it's great that you are going out. I know it's gonna work out well for you bro. It's been super bad the last few days for me though...
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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I don't know mate. I just don't feel like what used to for women it's heartbreaking. I'm on tinder now and I flick through and even the hottest girls I can't feel shit. And a little voice is like you want a boyfriend or something like that 😔
Jbm421Jbm421
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Believe me, I know that horrible feeling. I know how depressing it is. I been all over social media worried because I can't feel shit for a female. I think it's a form of a checking compulsion. You and I want the ladies back so bad so we kinda force it. And when we do, we can't feel shit and that worries the hell outta us and we fear the worst. Hell, I'm doing it now. I'd say go anyway. As bad as it feels, go anyway.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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- 4y
@Jbm421 Cheers buddy appreciate it. Hope you have a good weekend 👍
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Jbm421 Did I tell you about me and my gf breaking up?
Jbm421Jbm421
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@Ihateocd83 No bro. So sorry to hear that.
Jbm421Jbm421
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@Ihateocd83 Just focus on yourself. Look at me. I had a bad few days. But I picked myself up. I'm in the gym and yeah, the thoughts suck and the loss of attraction is distressing but I'm still doing it.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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@Jbm421 My mind will try and tell my I want a husband/ boyfriend and it feels real. But it just upsets me and distresses me. Why is this happening at this stage of my life ? 😔
Jbm421Jbm421
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@Ihateocd83 I know your pain. Every time I even attempt to think about a female, my mind brings up a muscular dude. Fml I ask myself that question everyday. I'm gonna be 40 in April. I'm supposed to have kids and be married or something other than this bullshit. I hate the mornings.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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Mate I need help ....
Jbm421Jbm421
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U ok bro?
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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Naa mate not at all ...
Jbm421Jbm421
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- 4y
One of the things that's helped me alot is staying off of this app. It's a compulsion and it will only keep the cycle going. Trust me.
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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My heads just a mess while walking around a shopping centre. What is this bf /husband shit I've never even experimented with a man and I feel like I'm going to have to 😔
Jbm421Jbm421
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That's just it. They are thoughts and feelings. Not reality. Shit bro, my head was a mess while I was just in the gym. Like my mind is so used to being triggered by my normal triggers but I'm just trying to workout and relax so my mind comes up with all these crazy "hail mary" attempts to try to get me to react emotionally. It's what our obsessive minds are used to. Breaking the habits of reacting to every thought is key. At the end of the day, it's you mind, body and soul.
Jbm421Jbm421
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"And it's as though you feel you've died 'Cause you've been killed inside But yet you're still alive Which means you will survive Although today you may weep 'cause you're weak and Everything seems so bleak and Hopeless, the light that you're seekin' It begins to seep in, that's the only thing keepin' You from leapin' off the mothafreakin' deep end".... -Eminem "Beautiful Pain"
Ihateocd83Ihateocd83
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- 4y
Great words... I did pull in the shopping centre tho lol. Although I've only been spilt from my gf 2 weeks 😬. I never meet women like that it seems odd
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