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Classic rocd there I think. You might have feelings, you might not. OCD tricks in you in to doubting everyhting. And even if you had feelings for someone else aswell. That doesn't mean you can't be with your boyfriend anymore. But treat the thought like any other ocd thought. I may or may not have feelings for that guy, I might never know.
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It just makes me so nervous. I know I don't have feelings for that other guy. We haven't talked in a year, I never think about him which is probably the reason why it freaked me out now. But my ocd just has me doubt everything i know
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@ilahi Well being aware of that is the first step. I had a little rocd episode of that aswell once, I saw I guys a found attractive and I new my ocd was going to latch onto that. And it did. But it went away again. But do your erps on this, asking for reassurance isn't going to help you on the long run. It doesn't matter if u have feelings for someone else aswell, and anyways you gave yourself the answere already. Treat your thought like any other thought. Don't give it the attention or worry it wants š
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When I was with the guy I saw fir a while last year he kept saying I was thinking about my long term boyfriend who I was trying to split from and I was and now I am back with long term boyfriend and I am missing the other guy. I am learning Italian night and day because he is Italian and we lived in Sicily his home for a bit and I am thinking of doing deliveroo again because I know he does that. My long term boyfriend loves me so much but my parents hate him. I am not made for this world.
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Resta con il secondo ragazzo, se amassi vermente il primo non ti saresti innamorata del secondo. Non importa quanto lui ti ami.
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Ma ho ritorni ai le primo e sto vivendo con lui e siamo felici tranne che per il sesso. Grazie per tua risposta. Puoi aiutarmi a imparare Iāitaliano? Sei Italiano? Grazie Mille. Io ho usato poā di google tradaturre e poā di conoscenza
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Si io sono italiana e vivo in italia sin dalla nascitaš„°
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Allora io credo che Mio Italiano e pui meglio da prima ma forse no. Ti Chiami ilari? Come va? Dove vivi in Italia? Io ho vissuto in Arezzo. Io ero in insegnante di Ingles. E vincini Firenze e io ho vissuto vicini Palermo con il ragazzo per un Corte tempo in la scorsa estate. Io penso ancora circa il ragazzo ma io sono felice con me ragazzo vecchio. Siamo comfortevole inseme. La vie e dura. Io provo lasciare mio ocd ma mi vuole che io ritorna. Io mi piace la temperature in sicilia c e tripping caldo e il cibo e pui meglio de Angeletterra. Aqui gente mangano cibo diverso ogni giorni non e buono per salute. Mio problemo e che io penso Sempra e pui meglio perche Mio ocd ma che cosa e ocd e che cosa e Mio. Io no sapo e questa mi fa paura. Come tu fa ocd ti fai sentire? Scusa per un testo longo. Por favore dimmi dove ho comesso errori. Io lo voglio imparare. Io imparavo da duo lingo cosi io possible leggare e scrivare meglio do quanto io posso parlare o ascoltare e uso google tradutorre un po. š buon notte o buon giorno. Grazie Mille
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