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Hey could you copy and paste your previous post and I read it and give you some feedback please
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Hello im not sure I understand but i cant copy and paste these posts dont allow me
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Oh shoot well I didn't see your previous post before this one but I read this post so before commenting on the situation I wanted to read both of them so I had a idea of what to and how to respond to you
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Oh! I can sum it up for you breifly here. Me and my dad basically got in a fight we made an agreement that after i reached a certain amount he would help me get a new computer because my old one was falling apart. i reached that goal and quit my job because i wasn’t happy there and thought i could find something better. It was about the 7th or 8th job i quit in like 3 months (maybe?) ( some of the jobs i quit for ocd reasons others were things i thought werent ocd at the time but might have been) anyways my dad got upset and called me a loser and said he wouldn’t help me anymore with the computer. He later told me that quitting this job felt like my health was getting worse or my ocd was getting worse and I understand that now but I still wanted an apology for the loser thing and he wouldn’t budge saying that if i wanted to hold a grudge that was on me.
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I'm just seeing this my bad I'm on the clock right now lol but your dad should say sorry but I'm coming to learn sometimes you are not going to get a sorry even when you arent in the wrong I'm not saying just let saying let problems run rampant but if your dad have issues like that you guys should have a sit down about ocd show him videos and stuff to make him understand I have to do the same with my mom
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Ive already discussed all this with my father.:/
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@Coul.C Well love it's one of those tough loves I see that perfectionism is one of your OCD look as this as I think this is what they call erp and accept it as a challenge to yourself that you not gon always get the answer you want
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@christiansquare98 You may be right. I just have a hard time with letting this go because im not sure if this is the kind of relationship i want with my father in my life.
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Everyone wants a healthy relationship but do understand it's not going to be a perfect family portrait due to the OCD I'm trying to answer the best I can without reassuring you
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