When I reassure myself that " I'm not gay because I have no attractions to men" i feel happy for sometime. Then on the next day, I think that I'm attracted to men. This happens with almost every reassurance that I take. Anyone can relate?

I have had similar experiences. Ocd will try to convince you of anything. One time I was just so happy that I at least didn't have any obsessions about my pets and that I could at least go to them when I was sad and next day *boom* terrible intrusive thoughts about my pets