I’m confused on something… so me and my ex broke up three weeks ago and she wants me in her life and I wanna get back but I wanted to talk about something else, I have dreams about her all the time and she affect everything my sleep, hunger everything. And idk if it’s ROCD or I lost feelings or if it’s just I’m maturing but in the past I used all think about her and stuff and lately my thoughts have been saying you don’t like her anymore and stuff like that since whenever she unadds me I don’t get worried anymore too maybe she’s predictable cuz she always adds me back. And whenever I don’t talk to her a lot my thoughts say ur not putting in enough effort cuz u don’t like her. Even tho a few days ago I thought about her nonstop and I still smile at our pics and vids and I ask to see her a lot. She’s pretty predictable so idk maybe it’s ROCD or I’m maturing but still like her or I lost feelings someone help pls:(

Relationship OCD

StormOCD

Date posted: 4y

It’s ROCD from what it sounds like. Maybe right now it’s for the best to be alone so you could get your OCD sorted out. I immediately went back to my ex without sorting out feelings yet and now my ROCD is all jumbled up and I’m in constant worry. Take a deep breath and things will work out. It’s okay to still be fond of someone and be friends without having to be in a relationship. Trust me 😊

nikkii

Date posted: 4y

its rocd if it distresses you

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 4y

Yeah it does, thank you

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