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You describe it perfectly! I've been this way my whole life. I don't even like to move furniture around lol. I always miss how it was before🤷♀️
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It's like a chapter is over and life is moving on or something. I feel like it has to be connected to ocd somehow.
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Yea, once the change has happened I will feel comfortable after adjusting for some time. But it’s like my mind gets set in a routine, I get comfortable, then enjoy it. Then when I have to change the routine, instead of being excited for the change I instead feel a loss.
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@justlooking So relatable! I also get comfortable eventually and start seeing that it was in fact a beneficial change in my life. I guess we'll just have to keep that in mind whenever we go through those emotional moments. It's just temporary. Glad I'm not the only one feeling like this though! Most people seem to have no problems with change whatsoever.
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Yes! So glad you shared this because I feel the same way! Evenly had a baby and changed jobs and got a different car and it has all been so much! The changes were what I wanted but I still really grief the past and the losses. And I obsess over if it was really the right change and what if it wasn’t but I can’t go back in time and undo it? It’s rough!
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