So I have a little dilemma.When I was working at target they gave me gift cards so that I can complete my alcohol training. But because I didn’t think I would stay there I never completed the training. I told myself that I would give the gift cards back once I quit or give them away or something. I’m not sure if that’s an avoidance technique or the right thing to do. But I quit in a pretty terrible way and never returned the gift card. And now I still have the gift cards. I definitely feel like I shouldn’t use it now. My friend told me I should. But I feel like Phoebe from that one episode of friends where she feels guilty about using some thing that wasn’t hers or wasn’t meant to be used in that way. And I still haven’t use the cards. Any inputs?

what were the gift cards for?

Basically in order to sell alcohol at target you need a license the gift cards were to be used towards that.

@Coul.C ohhh okay, i suggest just asking if they need it

@kenny0 Who needs what sorry?

@Coul.C if target needs the gift cards back, but then again this is probably your ocd trying to get you to do something

@kenny0 It might be yeah its also i quit in such a bad way. I thought about just leaving them somewhere in the store or outside it or giving them away. Not sure if compulsion or not

@Coul.C do you feel like you have to get rid of it?

@kenny0 Its more so that i feel like i cant use it

@Coul.C can you tell if its your ocd or you?

@kenny0 I cannot lol. If it were you what would you do?

@Coul.C i would just give it back. it sounds more like you are just trying to be respectful

@kenny0 I quit over the phone when i was scheudled instead of a two weeks notice sooo not on good terms

@Coul.C i doubt thhey care hun

@kenny0 Ah ok. So even with all that (its also been 3 months) you would still give it back?

@Coul.C yeah ofc, youre just being respectful