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- 3y
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- 3y
Glad you have the feeling now that you're not alone! This has been one of the most distressing thought patterns that I have had. Last night I saw a dream where I cheated many times and didn't tell my partner, it was HORRIBLE.
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Ugh omg the dreams!! I always dreamt of me cheating ugh… and with my ex.. like what?? The thoughts and dreams seem too true :( I’m sorry you’re going through this
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@MRR7221 Yooo yep same! I've had intrusive dreams about missing my ex while still being with my boyfriend and it feels horrible when waking up :(
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@positivityyyyy They feel so real like you literally have to fact check everything!!! And also I get dreams he cheats on me and I get mad at him because it seems so real:(
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@MRR7221 Same, and it's awful because he hasnt done anything wrong but the dreams feel so real. And same thing applies when I have intrusive thoughts when awake and then I get mad at him because OCD tries to convince me that those thoughts are real af. Omg feels so good to get this out of the system to people who understand me! :)
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@positivityyyyy Right??? I just discovered this app yesterday and I’m soo blessed to have found it!! I had nobody to talk to about my OCD until now!! ❤️
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@MRR7221 Aww glad you found this! This app has helped me so much during the use of this :)
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YES. I JUST got over this. It was the worst!!! I say stupid stuff when I drink (I’m 22) soo I actually had to completely stop drinking at the time of my thoughts… and it was maybe about a year I had them…
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- 3y
I really thought it was just me. I’m so glad someone else feels this way. Like I’m sorry you’re dealing with it but it’s soo nice to feel that somebody can relate to the thoughts I had.
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Omg I thought that I'm the worst person but I'm grateful that I'm not alone!
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No you’re not alone!! I promise you aren’t alone. I almost posted asking the same thing actually but thought I was the only one so I didn’t.. I truly thought I was going to really cheat on my partner. Turns out it was an intrusive thought that I obsessed over /:
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- 25w
no clue if this is compulsive, but I’m interested to hear any obsessions others have that aren’t the “common” ones you see online about what ROCD is? a few for me: - thoughts about their partner being with someone else instead (sometimes a specific person) and then trying to analyze your reaction to it? e.g. does it *feel* more right than us, do I actually feel happy for them, etc. - trying to imagine your partner in your current situation or maybe a specific future situation (when they’re not around) and trying to decide if they “fit” in it? - being super scared of losing them, then suddenly feeling like you don’t care much for them at all, and just constantly cycling? - I almost never fully enjoyed sex because I was constantly obsessing about whether or not I was turned on, turned on “enough,” if I was just having groinal responses and wasn’t actually turned on, looking at his face just to decide if I find him attractive enough, comparing my experience with how I feel watching content alone, etc.
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- 17w
Currently I have several different OCD fears that pop up throughout the week depending on the situation. I've noticed a commonality between all of them are the fears relating to memory/false memory. Today is the ROCD struggle I've been dealing with. I know OCD has been trying this on me lately because of how much I love my spouse. They are my absolute best friend and she's my world. I value our marriage and friendship more than anything. OCD has latched onto one specific female coworker. And I don't even know why because even if I were single I wouldn't be into her. Even still, OCD makes me think I've cheated on my wife every time I'm alone with this coworker at work. Always starts as a what if, followed by imagery, followed by feelings that I must've actually done something and can't remember it. Usually fearing I've kissed her. It hurts because I know I'd never do that to my wife and I love her so much...the idea of losing her kills me, especially if it were the result of something I did. Just wanted to vent. Feel free to share your experiences or vents as well
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- 13w
What do yall do when yall think of past partners or other people during intercourse with your current partner. I ended up confessing that to my partner and it’s damaging the relationship or making things really difficult. Having a really hard time trying to control the thoughts. I even think of other people while with my partner. Any advice or anyone with similar experience?? Please
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