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Everytime I try to go on tik tok or ig I feel like I'm attracted to these females I see. I automatically get a gronial response and feel very uncomfortable, it's just hard right now because I am dating a dude and I really like him I feel like I'm getting no where with and I question if maybe I am just bi
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Okay, take a deep breath. You’re okay. Groinals are normal, theyre part of the ocd. You really like this guy you’re dating. You don’t need to leave him, you don’t need to do anything you don’t want to. Can I ask how old hou are?
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Let’s talk
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I would love to
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@g033 What’s on your mind?
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Thank you it's just hard having these gronial responses, I would not leave him. I'm 16 diagnosed when I was 14 :(
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I totally get it. Groinals haunted me for years and still do. They’re the worst! If it makes you feel better, I’m 19 going on 20 and I have been struggling with this theme since I was 12. I was diagnosed at 16, and it has not been an easy journey. You will be okay.
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Thank you, I'm sorry you know how this feels. Is there any advice you have for the groinals
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