Please read!! I am scared of intimacy and commitment due to past trauma. This makes me extra cautious and avoidant of dating and stuff with guys. My mind is telling me I’m lying about that so that I don’t have to come to terms with the fact I’m a lesbian.

Sexual Orientation OCD

i don’t have any advice but if it’s any consolation, i relate to this a lot. and i have turned down kissing and dating boys because it’s scary and intimate which of course feels like proof of sexuality doubts. i hope through time your trauma is healed too 💜

Yes turning down kissing and dating etc makes it seem like 100% proof is lesbian. I don’t have any fear of issue hanging with females but because I know it’s a friend and that it will never get to that level of intimacy if that makes sense? 

Please read!! I am scared of intimacy and commitment due to past trauma. This makes me extra cautious and avoidant of dating and stuff with guys. My mind is telling me I’m lying about that so that I don’t have to come to terms with the fact I’m a lesbian.

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