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personally i would wait if he does send that money for starbucks and then just ignore him bc his behavior rn is kinda weird
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Next move: show up at my door step...😂 even though I've moved since then but I think i shared my new address before we broke up.
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I personally believe breakups happen because the relationship was broken. The fact that this guy right away got a new gf and when they break up is starting to try to get in contact with you by doing silly things like adding you on snap shows me he isn’t mature! Don’t get caught up in a relationship like this. I understand you were dependent on him but there are a lot of good people out there for you that you will never meet if you’re still sucked up in this relationship! Hope this help❤️❤️
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Thank you for this. :) yes I am really trying my best but the paranoia is not good for me right now lol. Like I didn't block his number like I should've (and I don't know his number), so thinking he could text me whenever is bad for my mental health. I know that he's bad for me, I just want him to leave me alone 🤷♀️
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@alexisrae1999 I understand it’s hard😞 maybe just straight up tell him you’re not interested in communicating with him and that it would be best for the both of you to part ways for good. That way he doesn’t have any hope of you two getting back together. Kinda like ripping the bandaid off sort of speak?
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@katso I feel like thats probably my best option, I'm pretty sure hes lonely and vulnerable and just wants someone to talk to but I cant be that person for him anymore
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I also got a *67 (private) call like a couple weeks ago. I never get private calls, ever. I feel like it couldve been him...😂. Thank you, Blue. I might just wait a few hours until I've calmed down to add him back if I choose to do so
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@BlueMountain Thank you ❤:)
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Ew block him
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Actually get the Starbucks money and then block him
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@Kaylaaaa 😂😂😂👏👏👏
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NO 👏🏻 WAY 👏🏻 GO 👏🏻 AWAY 👏🏻
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He sees you as the backup option because the new girl didn’t work out. 🚩🚩🚩 🚨🚨🚨⚠️⚠️⚠️☢️☢️☢️
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Ok I need any and all advice 😭 please help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and feel deeply connected and happy and in love with him. My ex and I were first loves and on and off basically for 5 or so years until I met my current bf. During that time we both were toxic and back and forth and he did some things that were really hurtful. We never really had an “ending” or any actual closure to anything? I just kind of started talking to and liking my current boyfriend. I saw my ex a month ish ago at the bar and wasn’t very nice to him. I was like hyper aware of how I was behaving around him to make sure he didn’t get the wrong idea. I know he has had a really hard time moving on from me. Since then I feel like I have not been able to stop thinking about the past and am questioning a ton about my feelings. I do have ROCD, and I don’t know if this is solely because of that or a mix of that and the emotional loose ends? I don’t know. But I’m feeling such an urge to text him this whole paragraph I’ve drafted about closure, how I don’t even need him to respond, but I just need to get some things off my chest. I feel SO conflicted about sending it. I do not want to rekindle anything with him, but it’s just the principle of texting your ex that makes me feel like I am betraying my boyfriend now. Yet it feels like it’s weighing on me so much - and I’m like is ocd involved? I just don’t know if I should send the text or not. If anyone has been in similar situations or has any helpful advice I would really love and appreciate some because I feel so stuck.
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This is probably not OCD but I have made a post about this guy. So long story short, last week I texted him asking how his day went with his mom and all that. So he then texts me “how was your day” and I said good and I said “yours” and he said “tough” “I’m going to bed ttyl “ I asked what happened and what’s wrong and never get a response. Next day at work he’s not talking to me so I thought to myself to just wait and give him space. Hours later I eventually ask him at work if he was okay and he said he’ll talk to me after work. Never does. Still never talks to me. The next day is Sunday and he still never texts me so I continue getting ready for church and ended up staying hom and telling him “I’m staying home this Sunday” “I’m proud of you for getting baptized” still no answer until finally Monday night or Tuesday morning he responds with “THX” I come in to work today and my cousin (manager) says he asked her if (the other manager) was going to church tomorrow she tells him “she said no” and then my cousin says “did you ask Bree?” (That’s my name) and he says “I really don’t want to talk to her right now”) he asks my cousin will she go to church with him. I keep overthinking “what in the world did I do” I’m trying to figure out what happened. I feel crazy for wondering what happened for him to all of sudden do this. I just like him as a friend but now I’m starting to dislike him period and have permanently deleted our messages and blocked him today. I took my time and thought hard before blocking and deleting. Maybe he’ll talk to me maybe not but we’re adults and I’m trying to figure out what i did because I’m really confused
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