Hey everyone, I really need your opinion on what to do in this situation. So my ex and I broke up in January. It was a highly dependent relationship but I believe that I was super in love with him. He ended up getting another girlfriend pretty soon after (ouch) but they broke up like last week. He blocked me initially on facebook, unblocked me, tried to add me. Since they broke up, hes texted me a few times, and now he has added me on snapchat...through search lol. I kind of want to accept the request and tell him to please leave me alone, and ask what he wants. But I'm not sure if I should. Next thing I know he'll probably send me $5 on venmo for my favorite starbucks drink 🤣🤷‍♀️

Next move: show up at my door step...😂 even though I've moved since then but I think i shared my new address before we broke up.

Thank you for this. :) yes I am really trying my best but the paranoia is not good for me right now lol. Like I didn't block his number like I should've (and I don't know his number), so thinking he could text me whenever is bad for my mental health. I know that he's bad for me, I just want him to leave me alone 🤷‍♀️

@alexisrae1999 I understand it’s hard😞 maybe just straight up tell him you’re not interested in communicating with him and that it would be best for the both of you to part ways for good. That way he doesn’t have any hope of you two getting back together. Kinda like ripping the bandaid off sort of speak?

@katso I feel like thats probably my best option, I'm pretty sure hes lonely and vulnerable and just wants someone to talk to but I cant be that person for him anymore

I also got a *67 (private) call like a couple weeks ago. I never get private calls, ever. I feel like it couldve been him...😂. Thank you, Blue. I might just wait a few hours until I've calmed down to add him back if I choose to do so

@BlueMountain Thank you ❤:)

Actually get the Starbucks money and then block him

@Kaylaaaa 😂😂😂👏👏👏