- Username
- kaylangel4
- Date posted
- 948d ago
- Sexual Orientation OCD
I’m a Tom boy and proud girly girl is boring
Either way, you are fine. You don’t have to know, and being bi or not isn’t a black or white kind of thing, sexuality is a spectrum. Everyone is at least a little bi. At the end of the day, we are charmed by people, not by genders. I’m sorry if this doesn’t help, but I yesterday I saw someone posting something here that compared o OCD to a tug war, and how we have to learn to stop fighting this tug war and just let go of it, because we don’t win by playing along, we win by realizing obsessive thoughts are just noise that doesn’t matter at all
My brain just wants to know for sure my sexuality rn. The thoughts keep coming up like when I do my homework so then I procrastinate on my phone to forget about it. The #1 thing that’s bothering me is that I’m friends with this person and I don’t want to ruin our friendship because of this stupid OCD. Do I actually have a crush on this person though because they are on my mind constantly
@kaylangel4 But that’s what I’m saying, you don’t win by doing this excruciating analysis of your sexuality and your feelings towards this person, you win by practicing not holding on to these obsessive thoughts. Your brain makes it feel like you NEED to do a deep analysis of your sexuality, but you don’t need to. You need to practice letting go of this compulsion
@João Victor Okay Tysm I think this helped me. I’ll trying to avoid the compulsions
Sorry for the typos