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Just don't think about it anymore, just tell to your mind 'so what,idgaf' laugh a little and move on
I’m not encouraging flirting or anything of the sort but everyone is human, we all flirt, most of us anyway. Please try not to feel too guilty, and move past this having learned something. You’re allowed to make mistakes sweetheart, no one is perfect. And a little flirting isn’t anything to get so worked up about and get yourself in a mess. If you want to, tell him, if not just try forget about it and learn for the future. X
I have been where you are sis! Do NOT confess to your boyfriend, it'll make your ocd worse because confessing is a compulsion to get rid of your anxiety! You felt like you HAD to do it, right? I am so sorry you are going through this. You are allowed to notice other attractive people, and if you flirted with another man it is nothing to dwell on, especially since you care so much for your bf. If you didn't care about him, you wouldn't be feeling this guilt hun! Try practicing ERP to the situation that happened, all the best! 😊
Update. We broke up because of my indecisiveness. When we are dating I want to be single and date around and not be stuck to one person. When I’m single, I want to be with him. This is the third time we broke up. I keep being indecisive with him. We were best friends for 2 years and we been doing this one and off shit since July
I broke up with him, because I wanted to be single and date around.
TW Yesterday I was driving and saw some attractive guy driving and turned my head to look at them. I have a boyfriend who I love very much and I feel like I need to confess this to him so bad. Even tho I know I didn’t mean anything by it I just wanted to look. I feel so guilty though. I haven’t confessed yet and I’m trying not to given because I’ve been confessing like crazy. It’s so hard.
Hey this isn’t really ocd related I don’t think, I’m just hoping for a piece of advice from some of you guys out there. This Friday I went to a party with some of my friends, to another friend of mines dorm room. The friend who’s dorm room we were in, me and her had became close last year other than that we haven’t really spoken much over the last semester. I’ve never thought of her as anything besides friends. I have a girlfriend I love very much and everything and I would never ever want to hurt her at all. Friday I was very intoxicated, and was talking to one of my other friends about the friend who’s dorm room it is about how I thought she was attractive. But with my guy friends we’ve always been very open about talking about females indirectly. I don’t think I said anything to her directly about it and I am really hoping I didn’t seem flirtatious because I feel absolutely full of anxiety and guilt that I was disloyal to my girlfriend in sort of way and idk what to do. Physically I’m positive for sure I didn’t do anything and my other friend says I didn’t say anything to her while he was around. I’m just really scared because I love my girlfriend and I don’t want to sit w the guilt that I did something to hurt her. Vowed to myself I wouldn’t drink again or put myself in a situation where I may be vulnerable to doing something like that. Someone please give me some advice to feel less guilty
Having a really hard time because I cheated on my boyfriend (i ate something after a friend and thought about our lips both touching that and thinking as if I kissed them and I did it on purpose and liked it) I hate myself and don't want my boyfriend to leave me. I don't want to cheat. I
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