Guys. I feel overwhelmingly terrible. I made a mistake and flirted with another guy at work while I’m still in a relationship. Me and my bf have been dating for 10 days. It wasn’t a sexual flirt but a lowkey one. I feel as though I cheated on him and I keep replaying what happened in my head. I can’t stop thinking about it. I confessed to my boyfriend and he was a bit upset but not too upset. I then, told him it was a joke and he laughed. But it’s really not. I feel like a terrible person. I will never make this mistake again but still

Just don't think about it anymore, just tell to your mind 'so what,idgaf' laugh a little and move on

I’m not encouraging flirting or anything of the sort but everyone is human, we all flirt, most of us anyway. Please try not to feel too guilty, and move past this having learned something. You’re allowed to make mistakes sweetheart, no one is perfect. And a little flirting isn’t anything to get so worked up about and get yourself in a mess. If you want to, tell him, if not just try forget about it and learn for the future. X

I have been where you are sis! Do NOT confess to your boyfriend, it'll make your ocd worse because confessing is a compulsion to get rid of your anxiety! You felt like you HAD to do it, right? I am so sorry you are going through this. You are allowed to notice other attractive people, and if you flirted with another man it is nothing to dwell on, especially since you care so much for your bf. If you didn't care about him, you wouldn't be feeling this guilt hun! Try practicing ERP to the situation that happened, all the best! 😊