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Yeah and I have a girlfriend too and it makes me feel like I’m lying to myself and forcing my love for her sometimes
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@ta No not really. I still want to do that stuff with her. Just sometimes feels like I’m forcing it.
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@ta I’m in the same boat I imagine if my girlfriend broke up with me I’d just never be able to love a girl again because I’m denying it or something but everything seems wrong all of the thoughts I have about guys just seems wrong to me I have no hate for the lbgtq community but I don’t think I’d wanna do that but sometimes my thoughts tell me I do and I get groinal responses but then immediately I’m feeling fear disgust and anxiety
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whats up guys what are some tips dealing with ocd and what to do when a thought makes u anxious ??
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I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? 😅
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OK, this might sound really dumb, but when you guys get intrusive thoughts, do they just come once and then go away? I’ve heard that repeatedly thinking about an intrusive thought is considered ‘checking,’ but it doesn’t feel like I have any control over how many times it comes up in my head. It’s not like I’m trying to check anything—it just keeps showing up, almost like it’s terrorizing me every time. I can’t seem to stop it from looping, stop remembering it, or prevent it from coming up. Every time it does, I feel horrified, and I already know it’s going to horrify me. I don’t think I’m actively trying to see if my feelings have changed, so is this still considered checking? How do other people get an intrusive thought and just move on? Doesn’t it pop up a million times for them too? I always thought that was normal, but now I’m hearing this could be a compulsion, and I feel really confused, scared, and lost. Is this why my OCD feels so extreme? Because I really don’t feel like I can control how many times the thought pops up.
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