The whole point of treatment is to accept the uncertainty that maybe you are gay…maybe you aren’t.
But my girlfriend and partner can’t live with that? She needs to know? Is the same for POCD? So why are my therapists telling me I am not and that HOCD means I am not??
You cannot know. The whole point of treatment is to learn to cope with not knowing. I know it feels like you NEED to know but you don’t.
So why has my therapist said I have HOCd and told me I am not Gay. They have said I will realise I am not at the end of therapy?
Your therapist should not be giving you reassurance like that. Are they an OCD specialist? Maybe you are gay…maybe you aren’t.